The boss always approaches me with his work and is ambiguous to me. How can he politely refuse?

There are hidden rules in the workplace. The boss cannot directly offend us. We will lose too much if he eats tofu for nothing, so we should pay attention to protecting ourselves. For physical cues, avoid them in time. If the language is ambiguous, you just ignore or refuse, saying that your parents called you and wanted to go home for dinner registration, or that your boyfriend asked you out for dinner.

1, using parents as a shield

Parents are people who protect our lives. If you want to keep your job, use your parents as a shield. If Master Jin says, XXX, let's have dinner together tonight. It's better to say that parents just called to let themselves go home, or they can call their parents directly in front of the boss and be called home directly by their parents, and say sorry directly to the host. Then spit out the strict management of parents in front of the boss and directly praise the boss as a democratic and approachable person. If I am old, I can directly say that the boss is better than my parents and must be a democratic person for my children. In this way, I can indirectly point out the boss and let him know that he has a family and pay attention to his behavior.

2. Take your boyfriend as a flower escort

Even without a boyfriend, you can pretend to fool those ambiguous men with your boyfriend. Tell them that before falling in love, we should be sincere people and promise our boyfriends to go out for dinner together. You can't go back on your word, or you can take your boyfriend with you to see if you can. No matter how clever the boss is, how can he not understand this truth? They won't be shut out, but if they continue, they will definitely give up. Although the reality is complicated, there are always ways to deal with it.

Ambiguity is toxic, there is no love for no reason, and there is no good for no reason, so we should be cautious about the goodwill of all parties. I always ignore ambiguity. Can I protect myself when I am a fool? The present society is very chaotic, but it is not wrong to be strict with yourself.