Tu Lei: If you love someone, please love them deeply. Don't always be ambiguous. Do you know why?

"Love War" is an emotional program of Tianjin Satellite TV, which shows all kinds of problems encountered by couples.

As one of the love mentors, Tu Lei is loved and recognized by the audience for his sharp words and incisive analysis.

Tu Lei's analysis of men's and women's emotional problems is also widely spread through the Internet, and is regarded as a wise saying by many people.

There was once an emotional program with such a couple. The woman is very satisfied with the man and hopes that the man can take himself home to see his parents and stabilize the relationship between the two sides.

The man always shirks everything, completely accepts the woman's kindness and turns a blind eye to her hints.

Once exposed, the man admits that the other person is not his favorite marriage partner and does not intend to be with the woman. But in the face of girls' likes, he can't refuse.

How can such a relationship not go wrong?

Love is between two people who love each other. If either party doesn't love back, it will be unbalanced.

If you love, please love deeply; If not, please leave.

Ambiguity in love is blasphemy and disrespect for each other's feelings. If you love someone, don't always play ambiguous.

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Ambiguity is the cruelty of others to themselves.

In love, not loving is not the saddest thing, but being ambiguous.

Playing with ambiguity not only puts the other person in an awkward position, but also puts himself in a dangerous position.

The temptation without a clear relationship may give both sides more room to think and consider their feelings, but more is the various entanglements brought about by indecision.

There was once a case where a woman had a boyfriend in a foreign country, but she went home for a blind date during the Spring Festival and had another blind date.

The girl didn't know how to choose, so she decided to cheat both sides and make plans later.

But in the end, the boyfriend and blind date from other places knew about it and found the girl to make a decision. The girl finally chose the blind date as her husband.

Although the girl made a choice and both sides promised not to entangle, will the girl get happiness in the end?

Not exactly.

These past events will eventually become a thorn in the hearts of the three people in the future, constantly affecting their future lives.

It can be seen that ambiguity is cruel to others and to oneself.

Ambiguity is a fruitless entanglement.

Some people say that girls nowadays are easy to cheat.

Send flowers a few times, watch movies a few times, and say a few specious love words, and they will think that they have met their destiny takes a hand's true love.

Even for a man, regardless of moral constraints, he does not hesitate to destroy the feelings of others.

But are women really gullible?

A woman who doesn't love you can see through a man's tricks at a glance. A woman who loves you is just willing to lie to herself.

But dear girl, if a man refuses to give you a promise and disclose his relationship, it is only ambiguous.

It's really not worth betting on the truth for a relationship. Both men and women should have such a cognition: ambiguity will not have results.

No amount of entanglement is just a waste of time and energy. People who really love you don't want to have an affair with you, and they can't wait to announce your belonging and take you for themselves.

Ambiguity is the end of love relationship.

There was once a girl who privately believed such a question, saying that the boy and she were boyfriend and girlfriend, but it was not made public.

Girls have always been in the position of silently paying, and they are very wronged, but boys have declared singles everywhere and shown mercy everywhere.

It is not difficult to see that the man avoids public relations just to better flirt with other girls.

The openness of love relationship between men and women is the most basic respect for each other's feelings.

If a man likes to have an affair with you, but refuses to face up to your relationship, then maybe he has never considered being with you.

If a man is with you, but announces that he is single everywhere to facilitate ambiguity, then he doesn't really love you.

Either way, it is not conducive to the development of healthy love relationship, and ambiguity is the terminator of love.

Tu Lei said, if you love someone, please love them deeply and don't always be ambiguous.

Ambiguity is a kind of injury and an unhealthy emotional relationship.

A person who is good at ambiguity must not be ready to fall in love with others. If he can't love someone deeply, why should he take up their feelings and time?