Xu Huanshan rejected Lin many times. Why is it still called love rat?

Rejection does not depend on the process, but on the result. Rejection lies not in behavior, but in attitude. As a result, it is obvious that under his unwillingness to return, Lin Youyou pestered him and firmly believed that he loved her, which finally affected the whole family and Gu Jia.

In fact, his attitude towards the female employees of the company before Lin Youyou is worrying. He looks aboveboard, reporting everything to Gu Jia, and his relationship with that woman has not developed to the extent of Lin Youyou, but he doesn't know how to refuse, likes passion too much, and his emotions are easily incited and led by others. So he didn't see the dirty heart of the female staff in that company at all, and even thought that Gu Jia's dismissal of her was a mountain out of a molehill. The fact is that if that woman is smart enough, she can become another forest. She is just a means of low-order premature detection in Gu Jia.

His ignorant refusal extended to eating ice cream, regardless of his married status and sharing an ice cream with Lin Youyou. There is a conspiracy theory. The ice cream shows that Lin is testing his bottom line. Since he can accept the ice cream, it shows that he has a chance to take advantage. So the origin of tragedy begins with ice cream.

Time and again, under the banner of friends, he stayed with Lin You, lusting after her innocence and understanding, which gave Lin You an opportunity. If he had resolutely drawn a line at the beginning and distanced himself, nothing would have happened later.

The most unusual thing is that she came to Shanghai to look for him, and instead of refusing, she opened a room for her to pay the house fee. In fact, he did all this knowing that he was making a mistake, but he was lucky enough to think that he could deceive the world, so he chose to run at both ends after the moral bottom line completely collapsed and racked his brains to deceive Gu Jia.

The perfection of his wife became an excuse for cheating. The way he rationalized his infidelity was also disgusting. If such a person is not love rat, who else is love rat?