What should the husband say to save the affair?

A man divorced at this time, it must be because he became angry from embarrassment and felt that you had hurt his face and made him unable to be a man. Although you went to make trouble in order to get an explanation, this step pushed your relationship to an unsolved deadlock. Then what we should do at this time is to retreat for progress. You have to grasp the man's core emotional needs, which means that you can say something soft at this time, which can just appease his current sense of losing face. I know what I did two days ago really went too far, but do you know why I did it? Because I care too much about you, you can recall that in the years since we got married, I have done such crazy things, and it is because you are too important to me that my emotions are out of control. After all, I am an ordinary person, and sometimes my emotions get out of control. So from our psychological point of view, this passage is to meet the emotional needs of men who are concerned and especially need to be recognized and worshipped, which is actually just to give him a step down. But that doesn't mean we'll invite him back next. Just make a preliminary preparation for our next negotiation, so that the relationship between you will become less tense and ease the atmosphere. I can quite understand that when you are out of control, you go to the other unit to make trouble just to get an explanation. But have you ever thought that it is because of despair that you can only choose to do this? Then Mr. Hu wants to tell you that when we are going to save the crisis of extramarital affairs, we must not take the initiative blindly, because this kind of empty-handed negotiation is very useless. Just like you fought a duel with your bare hands. You don't have any weapons For example, if your husband starts his own business, do you have a certain say in this company during his whole business process? Did you use some of your contacts when he first debuted? In other words, if he really divorces you, his own career will definitely be affected. So what you need to evaluate now is whether you have the following chips? They are all the best, but one of them is quite good.