How to avoid stepping on thunder when you meet your parents for the first time?

How to avoid embarrassment

How to say the opening remarks of meeting elders?

First impressions are very important, so our mouths are sweet. We can simply say that we can ask for an apology or take the opportunity to praise our elders. For example:

Hello, uncle and aunt, I am. Nice to meet you.

Hello, uncle and aunt, I am. This is a small gift for you. I hope you will like it.

Hello, uncle and aunt, I am. I heard that my uncles and aunts are very young before, but I didn't expect to be so young.

Hello, uncle and aunt, I am. I've long wanted to visit you, but I'm a little busy. I will come to see you as soon as I have time this week. Please forgive me.

Hello, uncle and aunt, I am. Please forgive me for coming to visit you.

Call uncles and aunts or uncles and aunts according to local customs.

How to answer questions from elders

Asking about work and planning.

Tell the truth, girls are outstanding and steady, and boys have the potential to be self-motivated, but don't be blind.

The boy added points to answer: I am earning now, but I am trying to raise my salary and develop in the direction of department manager.

The girl added points to answer: Yes, the job is quite stable, and the income is enough for her own expenses.

Ask about your son/daughter.

Boys express their determination not to marry non-girlfriends, and girls can express their appreciation for their boyfriends, but don't act like they don't marry.

The boy added points to answer: I really love her. Please rest assured that I will be kind to her all my life.

The girl replied with extra points: She is very kind to me, and I appreciate his tough personality. My parents also support us.

Preparations to be made before meeting parents

Say nice things about each other before meeting.

Remember to say more nice things about each other before you meet.

It can be said that the boyfriend is hardworking, good-natured and patient.

It can be said that girlfriends are usually very concerned about themselves and have a good personality, expressing their attention to their girlfriends and leaving a good impression on their parents.

Asking about each other's family.

It is more convenient to prepare gifts by asking the parents' occupation, family status (retired or not), hobbies and who will be present when they meet.

If you are a minority, you must ask if there are any taboos at home.

If the two sides are not from the same region, remember to remind parents to speak Mandarin.

Never go home empty-handed, be sure to prepare gifts! ! If you don't know what to give, it's not wrong to give gifts such as fruits and health products.

It takes 5 to 9 to chat with elders, but it is not necessary.

5 arrive

1. Be sincere and don't lie or exaggerate.

2. Use honorifics like "you" when talking to elders.

3. Look into the eyes of the elders when answering their questions.

4. Don't be supercilious when chatting, don't just be Nuo Nuo, be bold.

Boys should speak loudly and clearly, while girls should be generous and steady.

9 don't

1. Don't be self-righteous and show yourself too much.

Don't interrupt the elders' speech, just listen patiently and humbly.

Don't argue back with your elders.

Don't talk too much, don't make too much noise, if you talk too much, you will lose.

5. Don't talk about taboo topics such as religion and the other person's family privacy.

6. Don't complain about your boyfriend/girlfriend, even if it's a joke.

7. Don't be too outspoken. Ask your elders questions, and think about them before you answer them.

8. Don't treat yourself as an outsider and don't talk too casually.

9. Never talk about topics that you don't understand or that your elders don't understand.

Talking with parents and elders

Talking about health and health preservation.

How are your uncles and aunts recently? I read on the Internet that regular massage of Neiguan point is good for your heart. You can usually try it.

When chatting with young people, praise them more.

He is warm-hearted and kind at ordinary times, which is what I admire most about him/her. Was he/she like this when he was a child?

Talk about hobbies, and talk more about things you are familiar with.

I heard that you usually like playing chess, and I especially like playing chess, but I'm not good at it. I wonder if you would like to teach me.

Talk about traveling and what you usually do.

I heard that my uncle and aunt like traveling very much. Next time you want to go to the second old embankment, I will arrange it for you.