Should I look at my husband's mobile phone?

1, a man's mobile phone wife doesn't need to check. If a man has secrets from his wife, he won't let her find any problems from his mobile phone. After all, it is easy to delete chat records, or it is not too difficult to spare another mobile phone. If he doesn't even bother to delete the chat records, do you think it's necessary to care about everything about him? You may get some so-called sense of security by checking your mobile phone, but this sense of security is very false. It is only self-deception to prove that the husband has no privacy to himself through this power to check the mobile phone. And even if there were no problems at that time, it doesn't mean there won't be problems in the future. In order to gain these so-called sense of security, men who have no problems will become more and more disgusted with checking their husbands' mobile phones every day. The more you want to see it, the less he wants to show it to you. The less he wants to show it to you, the more you want to see it. Over time, a behavioral cycle has been formed, and you are increasingly insecure. He is getting farther and farther away from you, and the trust between husband and wife is gone. 2. The self-respecting man's mobile phone doesn't want his wife to see that Liu Jingli has set a password in the mobile phone note. His wife saw it and asked him, "What's in it?" He told his wife, "You can look at your mobile phone at will, but I hope you don't read this note." At first, my wife could restrain herself from reading it. Later, she became more and more interested in this post-it note with password. Finally, one day, she secretly read the password entered by her husband and quietly opened the post-it note. The wife found that the post-it notes were full of small accounts written by her husband over the years, including money owed by her husband and money owed by others, all of which were bad debts in business. Only then did I realize that my husband's business was not so smooth. Humans have had privacy since they began to cover their bodies with leaves. Privacy represents people's self-esteem, and everyone has a field that they don't want to be known, even their partners. Even if a man loves his wife very much, there are things he doesn't want to be seen by his wife, such as his troubles and his worries, which are related to his self-esteem. He doesn't want his wife to see him pretending to be a grandson outside, and he doesn't want her to see his passive expression when he asks for help. He wants to leave his wife with a tall and confident image. 3. Men who are not self-disciplined don't need to check their mobile phones. There is a kind of man who likes to have sex. In today's developed Internet age, it is more convenient for them to run amok. All kinds of friends in the mobile phone chat with the opposite sex and never consider the feelings of their wives. Some people behave themselves for a while, and then they will come back. Even he thinks he is love rat. Should we let such an extremely self-disciplined man go? As the saying goes, "a leopard cannot change his spots", it is difficult to change an adult's personality. Even if you manage him for a while, you can't manage him for a lifetime. Do you want to spend your whole life on such boring questions? Maybe only when he is old and dead will he stop having an affair with others and you will stop worrying about such boring things. Are you willing to waste your precious time like this? Is it worthwhile to convince and educate a man who doesn't know self-discipline with his precious time? Instead of doing these impossible and meaningless things every day, it is better to spend more time on yourself, strive to improve yourself and give yourself more opportunities to choose life. When you have more capital and more choices, will you still be at a loss because of this bad marriage? Should I watch 2 1 or my husband's mobile phone? This is a question worth thinking about. Judging from the long breakup between Show Lo and Zhou Yangqing, it is precisely because Zhou Yangqing saw Show Lo's mobile phone that he found that the other party originally had a mobile phone dedicated to picking up girls. So, you see, in the past nine years, Show Lo said that the most important thing for two people to be together is mutual trust, and looking at each other's mobile phones will break this trust. Zhou Yangqing is also very obedient and has been Show Lo's good girlfriend for 9 years. Only this time, for some reasons, I looked at the other party's mobile phone, but it was good to see it, only to find that in the days when I was away, Show Lo could invite different girls to come home and go to every city every day, some girls could invite hotels, some had improper relationships with artists and makeup artists, and even had "multi-person sports" that normal people could not imagine. Grace Chow and Show Lo have been together for 9 years. Did she find her boyfriend so scum because she looked at her mobile phone? Of course not. In recent years, there have been many tidbits in Show Lo. Her boyfriend is so handsome, so rich, so charming, and there are countless beautiful women in the circle of life and work. She doesn't have to think about it to know that the other person will not be so spotless. Why is Grace Chow still willing to believe Show Lo, because she thinks she is different from other girls, the only exception, and the only real girlfriend recognized by Show Lo in recent years? Show Lo is a little scum. It's not that she doesn't know, but that she found him so scum when she looked at her mobile phone. Scum is beyond her imagination. It's ruined after three trips. So you say, should I look at this phone? 2. Do you want to see your husband's mobile phone? It depends on what a woman wants. Many women find clues from looking at their husbands' mobile phones, and then they have emotional problems. Some people say that no man's mobile phone can stand the inspection. "No woman can walk out of her boyfriend's mobile phone alive. If there is, it means that he still has one. " A function of Huawei's mobile phone has also been hot searched. The more successful people in this world, the more elite people, the more successful and material-rich men, such as all kinds of Show Lo women, women should be mentally prepared. Your man is not just yours. Just like in Genesis, a real estate businessman has many lovers, and his wife is a smart woman who knows her husband's extramarital affairs like the back of her hand. But she always turns a blind eye, regardless of whether she asks or not, her daughter thinks her mother is timid and asks her why. She said: it is more difficult for a man worth more than one billion to earn more than one billion dollars without other women outside. Therefore, many women often find their husbands' problems not because they look at their mobile phones, but after they feel that the other party has problems in their lives. Because everything is traceable, the information in the mobile phone can be wiped clean, but the behavior, living habits and psychological changes of a man after derailment cannot be hidden. If you are a neat freak, it is absolutely unacceptable for you to have an affair with your husband. I suggest that after you feel that the other person has a problem, check your mobile phone, find out what he is doing and find evidence in your favor. Just like Grace Chow, you don't have to play videos or chat logs. You just hammer the other side to death with a thousand words, and the other side doesn't even have room to refute and fight back. If you are the kind of man who is willing to forgive this man who has just made a mistake that men all over the world will make, and is willing to share joys and sorrows with his family, and the marriage is not easy, but also a man who can cherish it, I hope that the woman in "A Faithful Wife" will advise you not to look at your husband's mobile phone and not to jam yourself. You can't stop him from cheating if you don't look at his cell phone. The trust between husband and wife is mutual. The above are the rich elite, which seems to be a little far from us ordinary people. Now let's talk about the second kind of man, that is, ordinary, ordinary men, or honest people as we often say. Some women say that I never check my husband's mobile phone, some because I really love each other and trust each other, some because I am confident that my husband has no money and no potential, and his face value is not high. There are few women in the working and living environment, so I am very relieved. All these are fine, but it doesn't rule out that some men have nothing and still can't stop him from picking up girls. When you meet such a man, you should check your mobile phone and give him a warning from time to time. Marriage needs to be managed and maintained. If a man never shows you his mobile phone on the grounds of mutual trust, you must believe that this is an excuse. If a person doesn't do anything wrong to the other person, he won't mind his lover checking his mobile phone occasionally, and he doesn't need to use what he needs as an excuse for freedom and space. The trust between husband and wife is mutual, not sneaking around, afraid to show you your mobile phone, afraid to answer the phone in front of you, reply to messages, etc. Trust is not a requirement of one party to the other, but the two sides use practical actions to reassure each other, rather than checking superficial things such as mobile phones. Therefore, whether you look at the mobile phone or not, a woman must have a steelyard in her heart. What should I do if my husband doesn't let me see his mobile phone? No matter what the purpose is, it is unacceptable for couples to force each other to look at each other's mobile phones. Forget about human rights and privacy. People who say they want to see it are also harmful. Suppose the other person makes you feel insecure and thinks there is a ghost in his mobile phone. Have you turned your back on me? Still can't pass? Are you ready to leave? If you want to continue, isn't it difficult for you to find that ghost? If you can't severely punish the criminal evidence, it won't affect your prestige. Instead, they will become passive and have to find their own steps. Moreover, there are several who can withstand the investigation. If he (she) really doesn't want to talk to you, if you don't check his cell phone, he (she) will have to separate. If he (she) wants to talk to you, you have to pull the ghost out of his mobile phone, which means you ordered the explosive charge. Therefore, the couple can't be serious. If they are confused, they will grow old together. The biggest principle is family stability and unity, and the truth is not that important. Is it normal for no one to see my husband's mobile phone? 1. You can actually feel it. Has he shown it to you before? If he doesn't show it to you suddenly, there is probably something wrong, or he feels that there is no privacy. Everyone should give each other some space. What is he like at ordinary times? Think about the reason why he won't show it to you, and you will get the result. 2, not necessarily, some people are like this, and I don't like others playing with my mobile phone. It depends on whether he really loves his wife. If so, two people should understand, support and trust each other. 3, husband and wife have been supporting each other all their lives, and you think he has a ghost in his heart. I often chat with my husband. If I were you, I wouldn't tolerate him. Husband and wife are always the closest relatives, but you can't take him too seriously. Communicate with him more. Should I check my husband's cell phone? First of all, husband and wife should be based on mutual trust. Everyone should leave their own private space for each other. At this point, Rene Liu, who is crazy about love, has done very well. She said that when her husband is alone in the study, she never bothers him and should give him enough trust. Of course, this trust is based on mutual love, even if some secrets are white lies. Just like the lovers in the textbook, in order to give each other gifts, one cut her long hair and changed her watch chain, and the other sold her watch and changed her tortoise shell hairpin. I believe that both men and women will be very moved by this practice. Because they all gave each other their most precious things. So, is it necessary to check the mobile phone? Secondly, when your husband gives you insecurity, you need to pay attention to the movement of his mobile phone. Some people may say, I'm too lazy to check his cell phone. He cheated and got divorced. If you are so confident, then you really don't need to check his mobile phone. But some people don't have the confidence for various reasons, so you need to know what he wants. Knowing his movements, you won't be passive. One day, you divorced, and you don't know when he started acting at home. Finally, after knowing that your husband is cheating, you should check his mobile phone. Since there is an affair, the possibility of cohabitation will not be too great, so we must grasp the evidence, including the affair, property and the whereabouts of funds, and strive for greater interests for ourselves. Do couples want to look at each other's mobile phones? Some people think that couples should be transparent. Since mobile phones are just communication tools, couples should be honest with each other and let each other see their mobile phones. If they don't want to hide anything, they are dishonest with their marriage and their other half, or they may have secrets that they can't tell their other half during their marriage. This is a sign of disloyalty. However, some people think that husband and wife really need to be honest and trust each other, but even husband and wife have things that can't be known to each other. Sometimes it's just a white lie, not cheating or betrayal. What is the taste of marriage if two people are transparent without reservation? Husband and wife should have space for each other, so that their feelings can be better. As long as you trust each other and treat each other honestly, you don't need to check each other's mobile phones all the time. This kind of behavior will only make their feelings deformed. In fact, whether husband and wife should check each other's mobile phones should be treated separately according to the specific situation. If your partner comes home on time at ordinary times, is open and transparent in financial affairs, and takes his family out to play during holidays, will such a person have the time and energy to cheat or betray you? In this case, is it necessary for you to look at his mobile phone with suspicion and suspicion? Wisdom is also needed in marriage, and sometimes it cannot be solved by brute force. Just like my friend, her loyal husband and happy family are on the verge of breaking up because of her doubts. In fact, if you doubt yourself, you should avoid looking at the other person's mobile phone, because that will only bring trouble and problems to your life.