How to maintain a long-distance relationship?

The best way to deal with long-distance love is to end it as soon as possible.

The purpose of dating is to find someone who can accompany you and share the joys and sorrows of life, but what's the point of such a date if the boyfriend and girlfriend you are looking for are in a different place? Although tools such as VoIP can keep couples in two places in communication, this illusory relationship is still not as real as face-to-face communication.

Therefore, if two people have to leave home for some reason, they must end this state of being away from home as soon as possible. As for how to communicate effectively in a short time in different places, the following are my suggestions:

1 Call at least once a day. Nowadays, people like to express their feelings in words, but even with rich expression packs, words are cold in the final analysis, unlike sounds, which can spread strong emotions. Moreover, words are always easy to be over-interpreted, especially for couples in different places. A simple "Oh" can read thousands of emotions. Therefore, in a long-distance relationship, you should keep at least one phone call every day to convey your thoughts to each other by voice.

Make arrangements in advance on special days to surprise each other. Long-distance lovers are most afraid of holidays. Seeing others in pairs, it is obviously lonely when there is someone, and it must be uncomfortable psychologically. Therefore, even if people can't be present, both parties in a long-distance relationship can choose some small gifts to mail to each other. It is convenient to buy online, order flowers online and order cakes online now. Of course, it is best to suddenly appear in the other city, and that kind of surprise should make your lover very moved.

Never have a cold war. The security of long-distance love is lower than that of normal love, and friction is inevitable, but once there is conflict, it is absolutely impossible to have a cold war. The two sides can't see or touch each other, the cold war is not connected, and each other will dream. The more they think about it, the crazier it is, and the relationship is not far from over. Therefore, it is best to make up the quarrel on the same day, and bow your head. Otherwise, the cold war in different places, both sides suppress internal injuries.

May the long-distance relationship end as soon as possible, everything will be fine, and all shall be well, jack shall have Jill ~

From Xia Zi, a down-to-earth intellectual. Wechat official account: Xia Zi English class