A married man sends you good morning and good night every day. What do you mean, leave him a message and he didn't?

Between the opposite sex, the most feared thing is crossing the line. Obviously not boyfriend and girlfriend, but doing what both boyfriends and girlfriends do. There is only one consequence of this, and the relationship begins to become ambiguous.

If two people don't have a partner, there is nothing to say, but if two people have a partner, this ambiguous relationship will become very complicated, which will make the partners misunderstand and affect your feelings.

Just like a story I saw before, a female colleague wanted to sit in the co-pilot seat. After being known by his wife, he had a big fight. Men feel wronged, but it's all small things. As for losing such a big temper?

But for a woman, this little thing is her bottom line. She thinks that a man's co-pilot seat is reserved for his wife, not for other women except his wife. She lost her temper only because she thought he didn't care about himself.

So don't always say "we are just friends, we are just colleagues". In fact, the relationship between the opposite sex begins to be "ambiguous", often starting with never refusing three things!

First, don't refuse each other's "invitation"

Some men just like to flirt with women, especially when they see beautiful women. At this time, he will ask her out to meet for dinner.

Men send out this "invitation" just to see each other's attitude. If the other person is not disgusted, he will accept his invitation, which means that he may have succeeded, which is also the first step in heterosexual relations.

Therefore, if you don't want to be boyfriend and girlfriend with each other, or you can't be together aboveboard, don't accept each other's invitation and don't make your relationship ambiguous.

Maybe you think this is just an invitation between friends, but when two people are often together, it is inevitable that they will have some feelings and eventually cross the line. At that time, it was not good for anyone. It was better to be friends openly.

Second, don't refuse each other's "help"

Women also make such mistakes, and often feel weak and helpless, and need someone to help her, especially when they are in trouble, and they want someone to accompany them.

If someone offered to help her at this time, she probably accepted, and she didn't want to think that the other person had nothing to do with her. They couldn't be boyfriend and girlfriend.

The beginning of ambiguity is often the beginning of never refusing each other's help. After the other person has helped you countless times, you will feel grateful and admire silently, and then you may cross the line.

If you don't want this to happen, you should keep your bottom line and know who you can accept to avoid ambiguity.

Third, don't refuse to use "things" with each other.

There is another situation that is more obvious. Two people often use things, or drink the same glass of water, or use his wallet casually, or help him pack up the things in your bag. This is obviously ambiguous.

So, once you have this behavior, you have already explained the ambiguous relationship. Pay attention to this if you don't want to cross the line.

Many heterosexual relationships begin to be ambiguous because they don't understand the word "boundary". No matter whether they are friends or colleagues, they can help if they can, but they can't refuse resolutely and don't give both sides an opportunity to be ambiguous.

There are few such relationships between men and women as "pure friendship". If two people * * * use things, they will be together as often as boyfriend and girlfriend and will not refuse each other's help. This feeling has exceeded the standard.

In feelings, the most important thing is loyalty. Now that you have a partner, don't cross the line and don't let the other person misunderstand. This is a very important principle.