As a sophomore, I feel that my roommates are very scheming. I feel that sometimes I am a bit short-minded and cannot defeat them. Sometimes I feel so helpless.

In fact, this kind of people will always appear in various situations, including in future workplaces. I think from a long-term perspective

1. Try not to offend them, control your emotions (this is also a way to exercise your emotional intelligence), and achieve harmony with them without conflict of interest. get along with each other.

2. If there is a conflict of interest. Calmly do your part. If they are complaining about poverty and playing tricks, you should not face them directly. You can find teachers or leaders and other people who must obey them to objectively respond to the problem and solve it

3. Some things I'm not sure, it feels like a trap is deliberately dug to make you jump. Let him tell you in writing or in a recordable form. Such as SMS, WeChat voice, email, etc. Then keep more evidence before doing it yourself, and try to paraphrase what you say and do.

4. Calm your mind. The school is a small society, and there are no complicated conflicts of interest between classmates. It’s also good to think more and experience more.