What should I do if I send a message to my boyfriend and he doesn't answer me?

This shows two problems: something happened to him, or something went wrong with your relationship.

Something happened to him.

You send a message to the other party, and the other party doesn't delete you or hack you, just don't want to reply to you. You can just ask him "what's going on" and listen to his explanation.

If he lost his mobile phone, or met an "emergency" temporarily, it means something happened to him. He will contact you naturally when he has dealt with these things.

Therefore, after you send a message to the other party, you will never get an answer. Instead of thinking and being unhappy, it is better to contact each other directly and ask why. If something happens to the other person, you can care about the other person appropriately. If there is a problem in your relationship, you will at least know the "problem" and then "prescribe the right medicine" to eliminate differences and resolve contradictions.

You are not important to him, so there is no need to reply to you.

When you get along with others, you send them messages, but they don't delete you, or they just don't want to reply to you. This shows that in his mind, "you are a stranger" and he doesn't want to have too much contact with you. If he doesn't reply to your message, he just tells you, "Don't flatter yourself."

At this time, you should respect each other's choices. You know, deleting a person is a bit naive for adults. Adults don't like a person and don't want to have too much contact with each other. They often choose to "block" or "do not return information" instead of directly deleting or hacking.

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Have a problem with you, I hope you can coax him.

When interacting with people, everything we say and do may affect each other's mood. You know each other and have a good relationship. Sometimes, you may offend each other unintentionally, or offend each other. At this time, if you are unaware and don't apologize or make up for it in time, the other party may be very upset and too lazy to pay attention to you.

For example, in front of outsiders, if you don't pay attention to what you say, you will inadvertently belittle the other person and make him lose face. The other person thinks you don't care about him, and then you don't apologize to him. To this end, he felt angry. Therefore, after receiving your message, he is unwilling to reply to your message.

At this time, you can communicate directly with each other, give each other more patience, ask the reason clearly, and then give each other an explanation, and naturally you can make up.