The boy told you that he was drunk. How did you answer him?

Let's examine the question "How should a boy answer when he says he is drunk?" . There are actually only two key words in the question: "boy (not boyfriend, but student)" and "reply (must be faced)". Here are a few examples to analyze the answers around these two keywords.

1, male friend (general relationship)

Subjects and male friends may be classmates in the same school, neighbors many years ago, and more likely to be new friends who met shortly at a friend's party. Generally speaking, the subject and this friend are only casual acquaintances. Even if we meet frequently on weekdays, there are not many times of communication, and the communication is mainly polite and cliché.

Answer: All of us spend limited time and energy on social activities, and this friend's performance is obviously a bit "out of line". Suggest ending the conversation as tactfully and quickly as possible. For example, you can reply to him: "You must be uncomfortable after drinking too much, so stop playing with your mobile phone, go to bed early, and I'm going to bed" or "I just got home from drinking too much with my friend, and now my eyes are dizzy. Let's talk about it tomorrow morning. " After replying to your friends, those friends who are a little interesting will not pester you to talk about life.

2. Male friends (good relationship)

The subject and this male friend have known each other for many years, and the contact has never been broken. On weekdays, in my spare time, I often exchange greetings with this friend through WeChat and telephone, telling each other all kinds of problems encountered in each other's lives, and even sometimes it doesn't matter to make a few jokes that are a little too much.

Answer: When the subject is facing such a slightly close friend, the reply can be very relaxed and casual. For example, you can give him some practical or verbal help appropriately, and even play a few jokes with him: "It's no use telling Lao Zi, go to Xiao Li!" Or "have you learned to drink a lot of wine with a little cat's capacity?" As an extra reminder, at this time, it is suggested that the subject should also keep an eye on it. There are not a few gay men who want to sublimate "revolutionary friendship" with "women (girls) in the rear"!

3, ambiguous object (shallow)

The subject and this ambiguous object don't know each other well, and they may just belong to the ranks of ordinary friends before. It's just a coincidence that we found each other's bright spots in the process of getting along, and we didn't get much from each other. On weekdays, when I think of it, I will say hello, and occasionally I will go out for dinner and have some entertainment activities.

Answer: when the subject is faced with this kind of thing, moderate care is definitely indispensable, but it is not recommended to provide him with practical help at this time, such as taking him home and accompanying him across the road. If he makes such a request, please reply according to the first provision.

4, ambiguous object (deep)

There may be too many complicated relationships and unspeakable emotions between the subject and the ambiguous object, so there is no further development. There are many such examples, such as: he is your best friend's boyfriend (don't feel guilty, your words don't count when feelings come.