What kind of psychology do students who never express their opinions in the WeChat group and don't quit the group have?

There is a female classmate in our classmate group, who hasn't said a word in it since the day she joined the group. Later, she changed her head to a photo of her granddaughter and didn't quit the group. I think she came in to see her classmates talking and sending messages. She just looked, but didn't write. So she knows everyone, but no one knows her. I don't think this is a good idea. The purpose of joining the group should be clear. How dare you stand in a group for years without saying a word?

Wechat group is the networking of real life, and all kinds of people have it in life, and so do all kinds of people. People who never express their opinions in the WeChat group may have many situations, and there are also considerations that he will not quit the group.

First, the winner's low profile. Some people are low-key, so they don't talk easily, but they prefer stealth diving when they are superior. Just because such people don't talk doesn't mean they don't pay attention. They should always pay attention to the words and deeds of the students.

Second, it's hard to say that a loser. After students crisscross the country, there are ups and downs, development and mediocrity, and gains and losses. Coupled with the self-contempt and self-abasement of many people, it may not be much worse, but I feel bad. If they don't feel well, some people seldom talk. Most of these people have been paying attention to the actions in the group, but they just don't want to participate.

Third, the arrogance of conceited people. If students graduate for a long time, the conceptual vision will be different. Even there is not much difference between classmates, but some people have different horizons and ideals from others and are not ashamed to participate in group discussions. Since such people are not ashamed, they are bound to pay little attention to the group, but they may not quit because of mutual affection. Of course, some people who think highly of themselves may really quit the league.

Fourth, I am usually silent. Some people usually talk very little in life, but not as much as WeChat group, but this is just his character. His affection for his classmates may not be shallower than that of a machine gun. Of course, such people will not quit the group.

In reality, many students are basically half dead. We should try our best to speak actively and enliven the atmosphere, but we should not think that some people are bad or even ask them to quit the group just because they don't speak. You have the right to speak, and so does he. Only by respecting each other can the group be harmonious.

In short, I don't like it or I'm not interested! If you don't like or can't join this group, then quit resolutely, which is much better than those who dive for a long time and say nothing all year round. Since you are in a group, you must have the possibility of liking and demanding. You will gradually find that this group is very different from your original intention, so it is better to leave. Try not to bear too much burden on yourself in interpersonal communication. If you are not a passer-by, you don't like it at all, you are not respected by others, and you speak with sentimental feelings and so on. You can't find any happiness together, so why let yourself be together against your will? Life is too short to spend limited time and energy with the person you like. That's what you can afford and put down!

No matter what the reason for joining the WeChat group before, at least for now, most of them don't express their opinions for the following reasons:

Predicament type

TA, everything that needs to be handled in this group has been handled. But he became a "zombie member" of the group because he was worried that others would say that he was "powerful" and "unsociable".

Indifferent type

Most groups are established because of the establishment of groups: high schools, universities, graduate students, outdoor activities, and even fitness and food shopping. Groups in bonus hunter abound.

The topics that everyone talks about in the group are not necessarily of interest to everyone, and there is no need for TA to take the time to pay attention.

look on coldly

It's a bit like "look". The mass message may be read by TA, but it is not involved. TA may not need to express his opinions or participate in them, so that he gradually becomes a "zombie member" in the group.

Only in and out of the mold

This is different from the third point. This kind of person has a purpose in the group, probably to get some information and get some dynamics. This kind of person has a strong sense of purpose.

Why would anyone ask such a question? You are really free, but you have the following psychology:

1, not interested in your question.

Why do you want to express your opinion when others are not interested in this issue? If people don't express their opinions, they will let people quit the group. What's your psychology? Don't take yourself too seriously, okay?

2. Inferiority and lack of confidence.

This has something to do with his personality. You can reply to what he said in private. Try it if you don't believe me.

I have long wanted to quit the group, but I can't.

Wechat group is not saved in the address book, and we can't find out where the group is. There are too many groups added, and we don't know what this group is for. Who will be too busy all day to express their opinions in the group?

In short, there is a bubble in my mind asking this question. Will you be active in every classmate group? Wechat is just a communication tool. Why extend this definition for so long?

Have you counted how many WeChat groups you have? You can click on WeChat search and enter "group" directly, and basically all your groups will appear. I have at least 60 groups, including work-family-life-classmates and so on. Take the classmate group as an example, there are at least four or five groups from junior high school to senior high school to university to graduate students.

Qunduo, who wants to talk nonsense in the group?

Working group. Basically, when the company sends a notice, it will write and it will be received. I don't usually chat with the company group. It's basically for work. Individual employees were embarrassed to chat in the group and were finally cleared by the leaders.

Family groups. I am more active in this group, and my family is easier to get together. All kinds of chatting, all kinds of red envelopes, basically there is a certain amount of chatting every day, which is after work.

Interest groups. I have participated in some interesting interest groups. Because I like running, except for some activities, I will choose to block most people's interaction.

Classmate. No matter the students in high school or college, except for holidays, they actually have some chats, but I seldom participate in them, and they are basically blocked, mainly because there are too many groups, and the things we mainly talk about together have no substantive content.

But like our classmates, we basically don't quit the group. This is a memory in itself, and the group gathering of students is the best way to get together on holidays.

Of course, many people may not express some opinions or have a very lively interaction. On the one hand, it may be because he is busy with work and study and has no energy to chat with his classmates. On the other hand, it may be because he is introverted and may not be used to chatting with his classmates, but he silently pays attention to the group.

There is no psychology here. There must be a necessary reason why most people don't quit the group, and some of them are embarrassed to quit the group.

If you don't express your opinion, I think you just don't care about the things mentioned. In addition, if you express your opinions, you may get a sinner invisibly and have a bad relationship. Why embarrass yourself?

Don't quit the group to leave some room. I probably don't think it's good to quit. Maybe I want to quit.

I think some people. Don't just join a group. Disagree. This is not good. I want to return it when I enter. Just for a little face, someone else's or your own.

Goodbye!

I am a person who likes to be a listener. I am good at listening. Although I don't express my opinion, I don't deny that this person has an inferiority complex. Perhaps, the topic of his thinking is no longer his words, and he can only be a listener himself. You ask him, but he doesn't answer. He can only say that there is something wrong with his cultivation. Not talking for a long time can only say that he is pessimistic inside.

1: There is no topic with the same theme. There is a saying that lovers talk more than half a sentence. If a person has no topic, there is no language. If he doesn't talk, he may not like this question because he is too disgusted. Only by finding the same topic can there be language communication.

2. People with poor eloquence are afraid of saying the wrong thing when they speak, and are very concerned about what others think of her. They don't have their own opinions. When things panic, people who don't usually talk through their brains may talk less. I don't communicate with others, and I basically like to watch others chat in groups. In the long run, personality will become withdrawn and introverted, and people will lose confidence in life, career and study.

3. People who don't talk, she just doesn't talk for a while, but she likes to listen to others and read gossip. The reason why she doesn't talk is also related to the fact that if she talks, she will spend time and energy communicating with people in the group. So time is also a cost, just look at what others say, so simply don't publish, don't talk, and keep silent.

Summary: The reason why people who don't talk and quit the group on WeChat are like this is related to her own life concept, thinking and attitude. If she doesn't talk, she thinks she can reduce her cost and spend it on chatting. Secondly, she has an inferiority complex. Third, she didn't find the same language communication. When she doesn't talk, she is amazing when she talks.

I feel it's normal to talk without saying anything. Because everyone's personality is different, some people like to talk big in the group and participate in any discussion; Some people don't like to talk, but they still pay attention to the dynamics of the group silently; Some people blocked the news of the group and never wanted to express any opinions, but they were still polite and did not quit the group because it was really embarrassing to say so.

No matter what kind of psychology you have, I think you should respect them, because it is difficult to change when your personality is formed, and you can't let people who don't like to talk talk to you.

And I don't think everyone should participate in the discussion and express their opinions in the group, because everyone has different ideas. After some people express their opinions, most people may disagree. Such people must be bad at interacting with others. There may be another situation, that is, different roads lead to no common cause.