My boyfriend and I met three months ago and were introduced by others. I didn't know much about him before. He often sends me short messages after the first meeting.

Hehe, I hope the following passage will help you:

When people get along with each other, they will go through some processes. They should first know, then know, then understand, then cherish each other's karma, then fall in love, and finally get married. Is it over? Many people say "marriage is the grave of love", which is misleading. If you get along well, the reception will be more and more fragrant, which should be managed.

If this boy knows you today, he will tell you at once: I love you so much. What must this be? This must be a lie. This is unnatural and wrong. Then, when I meet you today, I will tell you: "I want to marry you all my life, and you should wake up quickly." What is he? He doesn't know who you are, does he? He doesn't know your whole attitude towards people and things, and then he says he likes you very much. What's this called? Sweet words; But the power of rhetoric is so great that you can't bear it without considerable achievements, so we must first establish a correct understanding of them. The process of acquaintance should be calm. For example, if you think this boy is good, you should carefully observe how he gets along with his colleagues and his friends. Or go to college with him, depending on how he gets along with other students. Only by objective observation can we really understand his attitude of being a man and doing things.

What if you didn't know him at first, and you watched movies, climbed mountains and drank coffee with him alone? He will definitely show you his best side, not only his best side, but also his superb performance; Then bury the worst, so that you know him differently. If he and other classmates and friends are very caring and concerned about others, I promise that if he really wants to cherish and love you, he will definitely pay a lot for you. Therefore, it is dangerous to know each other objectively and rationally, and not to engage in activities by two people at the beginning. Dear friends, young people nowadays don't know this, so they are all in a very dangerous situation. There is a saying that "we are bound by misunderstanding and separated by understanding", right! Because his understanding is superficial, not really objective. Therefore, it is very important to know yourself and yourself, observe more and be calm.

Hehe, I hope you get to know each other better and see if you are a suitable couple. I wish you happiness.