Cry, you have to live a good life after crying.

“I once really broke down and cried loudly in a dessert shop near my home. I cried for more than three hours.

The lady boss kept sitting opposite me and handed me tissues. , said nothing. I also locked the door to prevent anyone from coming in.

I cried for about a pack and a half before I stopped.

Later she told me,

'Cry, I have cried like this before, and I will live a good life after crying.'" (from - Lilili)

There was a girl who came to a coffee shop. It was already dark, and every night she would come, order a blueberry pie, and then sit in a daze quietly.

She also brought a story.

The man she loved deeply left her. Before this, she had never imagined how she would live without him.

But life doesn’t allow you to think about it. Whether it's coercion or countercurrent, you have no choice.

It's "Blueberry Nights."

I think, maybe, it is also the "late night canteen" for each of us.

One afternoon, she came to the Western restaurant they often visited. She ordered a pasta first and a sandwich. She looked at the drink list for a while and ordered a latte. It was already 3 o'clock. Now, she was alone in the restaurant. She found a seat where they had sat together. After sitting down, she began to be in a daze. After a few minutes, she suddenly raised her head, as if she had exhausted all her strength, and said, "Boss, I want more." A pizza..."

"Girl, you can't eat so much"

"Well..."

Then, she started to cry while eating , never stopped. Just so gently, still shaking a little, until I finished eating the pasta.

After crying for nearly two hours, I wiped away my tears, touched up my makeup, and put on beautiful vermilion lipstick. I turned to my boss and said softly: "Boss, can you pack a bag for me?" .

NetEase Cloud Music’s popular music review some time ago:

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Every word, every sentence has become a piece of music in your head. The pictures cannot be erased, they are so similar, even exactly the same, your mood and your story are all on them.

Yes, every city, every street, every restaurant, alley, alley, every road, every place to stay, every day, there are countless stories happening. The story is very small, full of trivial details and love, but when you look closer, your eyes start to sting. If you get closer, you will find that their stories are all your stories.

Some people cried bitterly, some drank to drown their sorrows, some were in a daze quietly, and some just kept talking to their friends... As soon as you turned around, all the pictures turned into a torrent of images. Wandering around you is like looking at your own past and present lives, unable to interfere, but crying endlessly.

I remember a few years ago, I watched a movie starring the sweet girl Meg Ryan. She was heartbroken, and her sisters kept comforting her. After repeating it several times, the sisters couldn't stand it anymore. , said, isn’t it just a matter of losing love, there are a lot of men!

She then solemnly said word by word: "I just need time to mourn this sadness." (To the general idea)

Just like in "Like You", Zhou Dongyu cried and cried and cried, saying: "I don't know why I can't help thinking about him, I just keep thinking about him..."

But, it will eventually pass. Who makes us all ordinary people? There are too few people who die for love, become crazy, and talk nonsense.

To the extent that we even ignore our own pain, what do we think? People have committed suicide because of love, but we can still eat, laugh, and work, so who do we think we are?

Think about that boy or girl who you thought you would never love again a few years ago. Can you laugh it off now?

It will all pass.

But, are those seemingly rational people the most ruthless or the most painful?

I have a saying, which is very upright and sensible, and it is called:

Only when you let go can you have a new beginning.

But shamelessly, I didn’t do very well.

At some point, you will always remember that you tried to fill yourself with work, but this feeling is like water, thin water, pervasive, always eroding you at unprepared moments.

Sometimes it’s a flood that staggers you like a beast.

There is no way, you tell yourself, this is the last time I cry for him, and I will start a new life tomorrow!

Haha.

Stop setting traps on yourself, it’s useless. Die bravely. For example, I love to watch those love movies with perfect endings, and use them to heal:

In "Mr. Sweetheart", Tom Cruise knocked on Renée Zellweger's door to save her. She had the following dialogue:

In "BJ's Diary", Zellweger ran out in her underwear and kissed Fels (my Uncle Colin!!!) in the snow. The moment;

"Pumping Heartbeat" tells such a story:

When a girl likes a boy, the boy does not like her; when a girl falls in love with a boy, the boy Falling in love with a girl; when the girl gets no feedback and is about to leave him, the boy falls in love with the girl; is the girl walking too fast, or is the boy unable to keep up with the girl's pace?

So the grandfather told the boy: "Some people are shallow, and some people are just as good as they are on the outside. One day you will meet a person who is as gorgeous as a rainbow. When you meet this person, you will I feel like everyone else is just a cloud."

In "I Like You", the ending is sweet and very real.

Especially when Takeshi Kaneshiro helplessly yelled these words to Zhou Dongyu who was standing across the door with a blushing neck:

"I can't imagine whether I will like it." You who can't cook,

It's like I can't imagine liking you who can't make mistakes.

Because I can't choose to only like your advantages. I don’t like your shortcomings,

Do you understand, Gu Shengnan,

I have no way to choose whether I like you or not! ”

Speaking of which, I once said It took two years to truly get over a relationship. I still remember those difficult days after the breakup. Until now, I don’t want to think about it anymore.

Afraid.

But, finally came over.

So when I look back at those days that I once thought were the end of the world, they have long turned into a bunch of numbers in the time dimension.

I wish you could occasionally recall only those little deer bumping into each other, laughing heartily, and small and warm moments.

Isn’t it good to have loved and been happy?

I especially like Lin Chiling’s handling of feelings in "Like You". She didn’t give in when faced with Zhou Dongyu who suddenly appeared out of nowhere. She persisted in her own way until one day Takeshi Kaneshiro invited her When they ate together, she realized that Zhou Dongyu had entered Jin's heart. So, she left, and she sent Jin Jin a text message at night:

"What you want to eat is no longer just food. My existence is no longer meaningful. Goodbye."

There will be a day when we see each other again. On that day, you will be lost but determined. Before that,

I wish you so much, girl.

Love you passionately, to the bone. Here, live up to your life;

Cry until you are dry, and still believe in the beauty of love;

Then, continue to live a good life, wallow in joy and be as proud as you want.