I just can't help Dou.

Your starting point is very good, you should stick to it. One is for friends, for friends' future, for friends to avoid punishment, and for friends to correct their misconduct. Second, for the boss, don't use the punishment mechanism to affect unity, everyone's work enthusiasm and their own work.

It was just mishandled. This requires experience and needs to sum up experience from constant attempts. Everyone becomes mature and sophisticated step by step.

The correct way is to remind friends in advance, explain the situation at home to the boss, get permission to ask for leave, and then go home to deal with things at home; When the boss finds out that they didn't ask for leave, just tell the boss that you know they have something at home and go home to deal with it. You don't know that they didn't ask for leave. You tell the boss to call them immediately and tell them to come back immediately. When your boss finds out that you sent a short message (in the future, the content of your short message should be positive, and there should be no swearing words that others can't see), explain it directly to the boss, fearing that he will be punished and cause everyone's unhappiness, and want them to correct their wrong behavior of not faking it out immediately.