When it comes to falling in love, there is endless nonsense to talk about.

Many girls are confused, what is falling in love? In fact, falling in love means talking nonsense and doing useless things. If that person can reply to your nonsense instantly, then he must really love you.

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"Hey, what are you doing now?"

"I just saw a puppy at the door of the dormitory. It's so fluffy and so cute. Oh."

"Play less games and think more about me."

The two of us have been chatting on the phone on the balcony for more than an hour. The phone was chattering, ranging from what are you doing now to whether you miss me, Yingying took the trouble to ask, and the other party seemed to be very patient in interacting with her.

After several "I love you"s and "ohs"s in a row, Yingying finally hung up the phone reluctantly. At ten o'clock in the evening, all the roommates went to bed. Yingying quietly opened the door and crept onto the bed.

The phone was hot, and from time to time, there were several "ding" text message reminders.

Obviously the two of them had just met in the afternoon. After returning to the dormitory, Yingying turned on the call mode again, hung up the phone and texted again, in a rhythm that would kill a single cat.

One afternoon, Yingying hung up the phone and hummed a song in a good mood. I was washing clothes in the bathroom. She suddenly ran up to me and muttered, "Xiaoyu, I seem to I started to miss him again."

I asked, "How come you two can talk for so long on the phone when we see each other every day?"

Yingying laughed, "I don't know either. , I just feel like I have a lot to say to him."

I said, "I feel like you are a talkative person now."

Yingying pretended to be angry and wanted to hit me. His eyes were filled with happiness.

2.

I asked Yingying, "What do you usually say?"

She thought for a while and answered me seriously, " I can’t remember the specifics, it’s just everyday nonsense.”

She felt that her answer was unqualified, so she pointed her fingers and told me one by one, “For example, he can. He would tell me things about the student union, what activities the class was preparing for, how angry he was because of a blocked shot when he was playing basketball in the afternoon, and some embarrassing things when he was a child. I also liked telling him about me. "

I saw a cute kitten squatting on the roadside. I want to share with you that the egg fried rice at noon today is delicious. I want you to know that the new skirt my friend bought is very beautiful. I also want to buy a pair of clothes for you to see. I hope that everything I see, hear, and experience has your participation.

These are nonsense in the eyes of others, but I just want to tell you.

Love expert Tu Lei said: Falling in love means talking nonsense and doing useless things. If that person can reply to your nonsense instantly, then he must really love you.

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My friend’s parents have gone through more than thirty years of ups and downs together. The way the two of them get along is also quite interesting, that is: quarreling. Moreover, the two often have heated debates over a certain person or storyline in the TV series.

When I saw the scene in "Happy Sending" where Qu Xiaoxiao stuffed a note to Qiu Yingying's boyfriend, my aunt was furious, "This Qu Xiaoxiao is too nosy, right? What is she messing with about falling in love?"

The uncle came over and scolded the aunt, "This is a good intention to help Qiu Yingying see the true face of this man."

The aunt suppressed it. Angry, "I said I don't like it, so I don't like it. Why, is that little goblin pretty, so you speak for her?"

The uncle quickly expressed his loyalty, "From the day I married you, there are other women. I don’t even watch it!”

My friend said that this kind of scene happens many times every day. My uncle usually doesn’t like to argue with others, but when it comes to my aunt, he will do it from time to time. sentence.

I said, "Your parents are flirting. Others listen to their disgusting words, but your dad has been talking to your mom for a lifetime through the quarrel. How wonderful."

My friend was disdainful, "It's all nonsense. I'm tired of listening to it every day."

I patted my friend on the shoulder and said, "You can talk nonsense for a lifetime, it's just love talk."

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A young couple stays with each other all the time, holding hands and looking at each other without getting tired of it. This is the foundation of long-lasting love.

There is love, so the other person's nonsense sounds full of affection and warmth. If you no longer love, even care and consideration will become unbearable verbosity.

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My husband, Mr. H, was also a talkative person when we were dating. He didn’t know how to sweet talk and would always ask, “What did you do today when we met?” "What", "What did you do yesterday", "What do you want to do tomorrow" and so on. Sometimes he would look for topics that interest me to chat with me, or tell me his family's genealogy one by one. They will also show me photos. So when I went to his house for the first time, I was already very proficient in calling out his father, mother, grandparents, aunts, nephews and nieces by their names.

Later, Mr. H changed jobs, and we were 2,000 kilometers apart. In his spare time, he would still call me and send me WeChat messages every day, even though the things he said were irrelevant. nonsense.

I asked Mr. H, "Aren't you annoyed that you are so tired and you have to chat with me every day?"

Mr. H said, "No, I'm chatting with you every day. , I feel all the fatigue is gone.”

Everyone is naive in love. When you are in love, even if you see each other every day, you are still looking forward to seeing you in the next second. When you are not in love, even if you are sitting face to face, you are speechless.

I am willing to talk to you from sunrise to sunset, from night to day, from the prime of life to the gray hair, and I will not be bored.

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Girls especially like to talk nonsense when they are in love. In love, every girl has no sense of security. She often thinks about childish questions to make herself troubled. She also thinks about things for no reason because of her boyfriend's words. Every time, she will ask the other person, "Do you love me?" "Did you miss me?" and other questions, and the repetition rate is extremely high.

Two people in love often do some childish things and say some childish words without realizing it. Aunt Qiong Yao is very familiar with this aspect. The most classic one is the magical dialogue between He Shuhuan and Lu Yiping in "Love in the Rain":

When I saw this, my heart was tight Being attracted by the love-hate entanglement between them, I completely ignored this hilarious dialogue.

He Shuhuan and Lu Yiping were so infatuated with each other that they loved each other so much that they naturally did not notice that the whole conversation was actually nonsense.

But this is love, and people in it will naturally not feel it. But if you don’t care about these boring things and feel bored, then you must not love it anymore.

I hope girls can find someone who is willing to accompany you to talk nonsense to the end of the world and enjoy it.