How to treat an unreasonable old man?

Respecting the elderly is a virtue in our traditional culture in China, but sometimes we will meet some unreasonable old people. What should we do at this time?

First of all, we need to be clear that age does not mean wisdom and correctness. Old people may also make mistakes or be paranoid. We can't blindly listen to their opinions or tolerate their irrationality just because the other person is an old man.

Second, we need to remain calm and patient. It may be difficult to communicate with an unreasonable old man, but we need to express our views calmly and listen to each other as patiently as possible. If the other person is emotional or has excessive language, we can try our best to calm his emotions, or leave the scene for a while to calm him down.

Third, we need to find a suitable solution. If communicating with the elderly can't solve the problem, you can try to find other ways to solve it. For example, you can ask other relatives, friends or professionals to intervene and coordinate, or solve the problem through legal channels.

Finally, be respectful and polite at all costs. Even if the other party is unreasonable, we can't lose our self-cultivation and respect. We should be polite, avoid excessive language, and try to keep a good relationship with each other.

In short, treating unreasonable old people requires us to remain calm, be patient, find solutions, and always be respectful and polite. Only in this way can we handle the relationship with the elderly and avoid contradictions.