Usually, I am very enthusiastic about meeting my boyfriend, but chatting on my mobile phone is very cold. Why?

First, it may be that your boyfriend is not interested in you, but he usually takes the initiative to be enthusiastic about you because he wants to have a girlfriend.

I once met such a man. They were very enthusiastic when they first started to fall in love, and they also took the initiative to send messages and call girls. However, after two people are together, boys only care about girls when they get along. In addition, they are indifferent to girls, will not take the initiative to send messages to girls, and will not take the initiative to call girls. Unless they really need help or something, they are almost more like invisible people to girls, and then they will slowly break up.

Second, it is possible that the boyfriend wants to have his own independent space in private, so when he is not around you, he wants to be alone and do his own thing.

Some men actually love their girlfriends, but their love may be limited to the time when their girlfriends are together. At this time, they will put all their energy on their girlfriends. But if they have their own independent space, they just want to play games or do their own thing. When doing these things, they don't want others to disturb them, and they want to have their own space, so if his girlfriend calls and sends him a message at this time, he will feel very annoyed.

Third, it is possible that boyfriends are usually busy at work, so they will spend more time at work. He doesn't particularly like chatting on his mobile phone, and he doesn't have enough time.

There are some workaholics in life who want to improve themselves in their careers, so they don't care too much even if they face phone calls or text messages from their girlfriends. More often, they will reply to information at work, not to their girlfriends. Over time, they may forget that their girlfriends sent them messages. This will happen many times, indicating that your boyfriend is a career-oriented boyfriend.