What do you mean he sent messages to boys and didn't return them?

I think what many girls can't accept most is that "the boys they like don't reply to information or reply to information is perfunctory". I believe all the girls who have experienced that taste know. To tell you the truth, I have been waiting for someone to receive my news and lose sleep. It is really an unbearable weight of life. I feel that the whole person is not good and will become extremely irritable. Just like waiting for the results of the college entrance examination. At first, you can do other things. Later, you just want to wait for news from your mobile phone. After a while, you can't wait any longer. You want to throw away your mobile phone, but you can't help looking at it from time to time. Finally, your cell phone rang. Did you expect to find that your mother asked you for dinner again? I wonder how long it will take. He finally gave it to you. At least, he didn't ignore you. How's it going? Let's talk in our hearts ~ ~

Then many girls will ask, "Why doesn't he love returning my news?" "Why did he reply to my message so slowly?" "Why is his reply to my message always short?" Does this mean that he is not interested in me at all?

Actually, I'm not sure The fact that boys don't like to return messages should be treated dialectically. Don't be too pessimistic, and certainly don't deceive yourself.

First of all, let's see if boys never return your messages or occasionally. It's normal to say nothing occasionally, maybe it's not that the other person really doesn't want to.

Generally, there are the following situations:

In the first case, the other party was busy at that time, and what you said was not particularly important, so I won't return it as the end of the topic. Generally speaking, if your words end in a declarative sentence, the other party is likely to end the topic by default. After all, one of the two people must take the initiative to end the conversation, otherwise the conversation will never go on. Then some sensitive girls will feel that if they don't talk, they should tell them and say goodbye. Dear, now is not the time to play qq in the past, and finally I have to say "I got off, 886". Look at the friends and girlfriends you are particularly familiar with and say "Bye bye" at the end of the topic. And most of the time, I just don't want to talk and want to do something else. You must find an excuse "Stop it, I'm going to take a shower". It is actually a good thing that two people are careless at the beginning of their relationship.

The second case: he forgot to reply or replied with his mind.

There is this problem, because there are so many fans talking to me, and then I reply, probably thinking about what to reply. Suddenly another person sent me a message. I saw it and replied to another person. I forgot to reply to this person. There is too much news, which has been brushed behind. So I think this situation is quite normal.

The third situation: the other party doesn't know how to reply to what you said.

Encounter embarrassing questions, such as "cat, how much do you weigh?" . I usually choose to ignore it. Chatting with people you like, many girls like to send small compositions to each other and question each other, forcing them to ask "What do you think of me", "Do you hate me" and "Why don't you reply to my message". Believe me, honey, boys will have a big head when they see such a problem.

But then again, in these three situations, boys may be interested in you, but they are definitely not enough to chase you. Otherwise, I will never miss any news from you.

Of course, if a boy often doesn't reply to your messages or only replies a few words, it means that he probably really doesn't want to reply.

In this case, please think about such a question first. Are you familiar with it? Is there an intersection? Know each other? Know each other? If not, all right. You are almost a stranger, equivalent to an artificial intelligence robot. It is normal for him not to reply, especially for many male gods with high vigilance. So if he wants to chat with you, at least make sure that he knows your existence, has seen you personally, has a basic impression, knows what you look like, how old you are, what grade you are in, what major you are in or what you do ... If you add a boy's WeChat on your own initiative, he still doesn't agree with you, then at the beginning, you should introduce yourself sincerely, and don't set up a circle of friends to be visible for three days, and take a few daily photos.

If you are familiar with each other in reality, but he still doesn't like to reply to your messages, then you can try to get to know him online at this time to see if he will be more enthusiastic. Many boys are very enthusiastic in reality and have no online chat. Actually, it's easy to explain. In the eyes of many boys, chatting is energy-consuming and boring, far less enjoyable than playing games. But meeting is different. He saw you in a three-dimensional image. It's hard not to secrete dopamine!

To sum up, when a boy doesn't like to reply to news, don't blx. After all, I liked him first. I can't even reply to your message every second, let alone your favorite male god. It is important to learn to control rhythm and emotions. Maybe one day, he will wait for your news!