What should my husband tell her mother-in-law after cheating?

Whether a husband tells his mother-in-law after cheating depends on three factors:

First, what kind of person is your mother-in-law?

(1) If your mother-in-law is a kind and upright woman, you can tell her.

She will uphold justice and help you.

If your mother-in-law is a kind and wise woman, you can tell her.

She will stay with you and solve the problem with you.

(3) If your mother-in-law is a kind woman who can manipulate your father-in-law, you can tell her.

She will do something for you, and it will also have an impact on her son.

But,

(4) If your mother-in-law is a person who has no opinion, she will either cry secretly or cry when she knows, then don't tell her.

Because it will make you more tired.

(5) If your mother-in-law is very partial to her son, don't tell her if her son is a mother-in-law.

Because she will only stand on her son's side, and even help him find reasons and excuses to trouble you.

(6) If your mother-in-law is a coward and afraid of conflict, don't tell her.

Because she may make you endure, and then she will make you depressed.

When we can see clearly what kind of person our mother-in-law is, we can avoid making our affairs more complicated.

Second, what is your usual relationship with your mother-in-law?

If your mother-in-law is the first three kinds of people, you can say whether you have a good relationship with her at ordinary times.

Because she expects the children to have a good life.

When her son cheated her and something so serious happened, she would certainly uphold justice.

She is willing to help you because she has a correct view of right and wrong.

If your mother-in-law belongs to the latter three kinds of people, you can choose not to say anything, no matter whether your relationship is good or not.

Because she may not only fail to help solve the problem, but also make things more complicated.

Liu Liu usually has a good relationship with her mother-in-law. She will take the initiative to buy clothes and gifts for her mother-in-law on holidays. Her name is mom, which is more considerate than her husband.

However, when her husband cheated and told her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law cried on the spot.

After her husband came back, her mother-in-law went straight up and slapped her husband.

But her husband denied cheating.

I didn't expect my mother-in-law to keep telling Liu Liu that he didn't cheat, because you usually have a bad temper. You should change your bad temper and be kind to him, and you will get better gradually.

What's more, as soon as her son came back, it was as if his son had been wronged outside, and he quickly prepared food for her son, which was even better than before.

I was so angry that I didn't know what to do.

Of course, many mothers-in-law will be very proud when they know that their son is cheating.

He felt that his son was very capable and said:

Men are like this nowadays. You should be kind to him. You should bear it. When he is old, he will go back to his family and so on.

As for the mother-in-law relationship, it is not good. No matter what her mother-in-law is, when she finds out that her husband is cheating, she must not tell her.

Maybe you want her to know what kind of good son she raised in order to vent her anger.

But when you do, she may say it's your fault.

Accusing you gives you another opponent besides mistress.

3. What is the relationship between mother-in-law and husband?

Under normal circumstances, we tell our mother-in-law that we hope to get her help and put pressure on her husband to come back and live a good life.

But,

If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, then the participation of mother-in-law will not help to repair it.

If the husband is filial to his mother-in-law and has scruples, then we can tell her,

Mother-in-law said that the church increased our weight.