My predecessor often sends me messages. Should I reply to him?

I can understand your feeling. Both men and women have a strong sense of place for the people they like to care about. They think it's mine, and no one can touch it, crossing the line. Even if they take one more look and say one more word, I think you want to hit on him.

What you are more dissatisfied with is that your husband's attitude is a little cold. I think it's nothing. I don't like them. I don't care if they send me messages. Why all the fuss?

This is the contradiction caused by the difference in thinking between men and women. Your husband thinks he's honest and not afraid of shadows. Since there is nothing on both sides, there is no need to avoid it. So why can he give you his mobile phone to play with, not afraid of what you see? Even if he sees the information sent by the opposite sex, he is not in a hurry. It's simple. He never talks to me. Why are you nervous?

He is just a familiar stranger to him. If anything happens, he will give you a mobile phone to play with. How many times have you met them? If you really want to cheat, it's a bit stupid ... because some people are like this. Even if they haven't contacted each other for a long time, they have no feelings for each other, but they still keep their contact information and don't care.

For them, since there is really nothing, what does it matter if I delete it or not? Especially for those who have no deep hatred, unless they are offended, they rarely delete people.

And you are a particularly sensitive person. Since the other party has made it clear, you should not cling to this matter, not to mention whether others really like you and are good to you, and you can't feel it yourself. Judging by these people who have never talked to you again? If a person doesn't love you, doesn't care about you, doesn't send messages and won't love you. If you care about this kind of thing, your contradictions and problems will get bigger and bigger, which will really affect your feelings.

If it really doesn't work, communicate with your straightforward husband. I don't want you to talk about this topic with emotion, criticize, blame, complain, reason, talk to yourself regardless of other people's feelings, but communicate on the premise of understanding the thoughts and feelings of both sides.

Understand his thoughts and let him know yours. Both sides can find a satisfactory and effective solution to your heart disease, which will be much better than losing your temper and make him feel that you are not unreasonable.