My boyfriend always tells me after dinner that you pay.

This problem is too obvious. This boy is not sincere to you at all, or he doesn't like you very much. He is not sure whether he will continue to develop with you, and he is reluctant to spend money. How much a boy likes a girl is directly proportional to whether he is willing to spend money for her. Ask all the boys who answered your question, do they really like a girl, and in the early days of love, will they let her pay the bill by eating and watching movies? I don't think so. If a boy likes a girl, he will spend a lot of time thinking about how to arrange a good program for her, take her to eat delicious food and buy her gifts to make her happy. How can he care about money after dinner? That is hesitation, uncertainty about his feelings with you, and distressed to spend money for you.

Although a little straightforward, ask yourself, are you happy with him like this? When I dated my boyfriend before, he also said that he would invite me. I took out my bag at that time, and then he immediately stopped me, laughing and saying it was a joke. I just want to see my attitude and how I really pay for it. If I insist on it again, he won't live or die, saying that no boys let girls pay the bill. This is outrageous. Moreover, I think AA system is not suitable for couples to go out for dinner, which is very embarrassing. It seems that it is totally unnecessary for two people to distinguish clearly.

It is one thing for a girl to take the initiative to pay, which shows that she is sensible and can measure people, not that kind of high-profile attitude; But it is another matter for a boy to ask her to pay, which only shows that this boy lacks self-restraint, is not a generous person, and is good at thinking and calculating small accounts. I am not sincere enough to treat this relationship.

In real communication, the most appropriate way is for both parties to pay for meals and other expenses, accounting for 80% of boys and 20% of girls. But girls can usually buy him some small gifts or something to show your concern for him. How can a sincere love care so much? Or he'll break your fingers and I'll treat you a few times. Should I be invited several times? Or just too lazy to forget it. It's a hidden meal. What's the point of this kind of love talk?