Defense statements and crying

When the plaintiff was practicing in Jiangdian Hospital, she knew that the defendant Hu Shi was in love with Xiao Hua (Hu Shi and Xiao Hua were engaged) and pulled the defendant Hu Shi into her arms by hook or by crook.

Because of this incident, Xiao Hua and the defendant Hu Shi had a big fight several times, and later broke up because they no longer wanted a bride price. What? Got into a fight on the third day after marriage. Who can testify? It is a big joke! Don't forget this is a three-day return visit! Did you call at home or on the road?

I remember:1September 1999 1 1 day (the second day of the Double Ninth Festival), my son was born. My mother was ill and retired from home for treatment because of asthma, tracheitis and other diseases. But in order to serve you in confinement, I dragged my sick body to Chuanchong two months in advance, accompanied by my father, who is nearly seventy years old. (I'm not allowed to answer it) It was a hot day in June. Every day, we have water, cooking, washing clothes, cleaning and so on. We get up before dawn every day. So, we are not satisfied with the plaintiff. As long as we see Hu Shi giving his mother a bag of milk powder or peeling an orange for her to eat, we will sarcastically say, you look very filial! In addition, this milk powder and oranges were brought by my eldest brother and second brother when they visited their mother in Meishan.

In a blink of an eye, on October 2, 2000 1 month 12, because my mother was ill, my eldest brother and my third brother came to the boat to see if her mother was better, and they also brought apples and bananas that her mother loved. Sometimes they peel apples for her to eat and sarcastically say, what a filial son! For this reason, I often quarrel, and my mother ignores it, often pointing fingers at mulberry ... The defendant's mother had to swallow her voice, secretly shed tears, and returned to Huainan alone.

From then on, there was no peace in the family, and mother was regarded as a thorn in the side and a thorn in the flesh. It snowed heavily in the first month, because the plaintiff could not serve the children, and because of the cold weather, she caught a cold. The plaintiff complained that those who could serve ran back to Huainan, and when you are old, you don't want to come into my house again! Children are young, it is cold, and their resistance is weak. It is common to catch a cold. How can I blame my mother? I remember that this day was the first month 19, and the day after my mother left, I stopped looking for the plaintiff's mother to sentence me (because every time I reported the plaintiff's mother, I was either scolded or kicked out by two people. I want to find the village chief to judge this time. When I opened the door to go out, the plaintiff Chuya slapped me in the face, stunned me, and then pulled my hair, which hurt me. After every quarrel, I have to change the lock and weld the iron door knocker again, which makes me homeless and I have to borrow the bed from my relatives. Before I got married, I was forced by the plaintiff to live in the original hospital. Live a single life again.

With the persuasion and company of good people, I dared to return to the boat and rush home. A few days after I came home, I scratched my face on the pretext of soft tissue injury on her face, and cursed me for being run over by a car sooner or later and not cooking for me for several days. When I came home from work, I found that the plaintiff had changed the lock again, so I couldn't go home at night and had to stay at the original residence of the hospital. During this period, I began to manage the economy, and her monthly salary was just for shaving her head. I have no money with me. I don't have the money to catch people's feelings, and I'm also angry. Because the plaintiff said that you rode a motorcycle as fast as a race, and one day you broke your leg and arm. I used the saved vacation to ride a motorcycle back to Huainan to dispel my inner pain. Secondly, I asked my parents for some money and returned to Huainan's parents' home after such a long separation. With the kind words of my parents and three brothers, I went back to live in Jiangdian Hospital (because the door lock was changed when the boat rushed home). Because of the long time, I have no money to eat, and I am embarrassed to always reach out and borrow from my colleagues (for fear that others will say that my wife is inflammatory and afraid of my wife, etc. ), so I have to go to my aunt's house in Meishan for dinner every day.

Before Tomb-Sweeping Day in 2000, my father came to Meishan to visit the grave. In order not to intensify contradictions, I sometimes go to Meishan to visit my father, but I am often scolded and beaten by the plaintiff Chu Ya, and I dare not tell my father. In desperation, I had to go to the oil mill to find a friend to talk about my inner pain. Because the motorcycle is broken and needs to be repaired and replaced, it has delayed me for more than a day. It took three days and two nights to get back to Jiangdian Hospital.

Afterwards, I learned that my parents found out that I didn't go to her house for dinner for three days, for fear of an accident. My father and uncle went to the hospital to find my original residence and found the door locked. They asked Dr. Wang and the hospital leaders. They all said that I hadn't worked for three days, so they quickly got on the boat and searched upstairs and downstairs. They asked Chuya, who said you asked me, and I asked you? So I reported to Jiang Dianzong that night, and the institute sent people to look around all night to find out what I didn't see. Then I inquired about Chu Ya and her parents-in-law, saying that if anything happens to Hu Shi, what will your family do! So the two families have forged a grudge since then. When the young couple quarreled, they said they shouldn't go to the police station to report the case. After that, they tortured and abused me even more. I am not allowed to visit my parents, and I can't eat without paying my monthly salary. I'm not allowed to show it to my parents or relatives and friends on holidays. Your parents are in charge of the ceremony in Meishan hospital, and so on. If one of them is violated, I will be threatened with divorce and sleeping in separate beds.

Chuya, the plaintiff, and her mother often proposed to learn to make money by muddling along. Money makes the mare go, but officials don't give gifts. You Hu Shi, you are short, you have no money, and your salary is less than two thousand yuan. Since my daughter entered the Huang Lin clinic, she can earn thirty or forty yuan a month, and sometimes she can earn ten thousand yuan. She has the money to loan sharks and earn 10 thousand a year. How can you make so much money if you don't fool around and make friends? You build houses and buy trust-mart stores?

Defendant Hu Shi said that Chuya had an abnormal relationship with someone. He often used training to send text messages to people when he was on night shift, and sometimes he could make more than a dozen phone calls a day. (There is evidence to check) Is the relationship normal or not?

In a word, I was abused in my life, my spirit was torn and my body was violent, which was the focus of my full-text crying. I seem to be locked in a violent family, living a miserable life of sulking, being beaten all day, having no freedom and no money to spend. At night, I am on pins and needles, and I don't know what will happen one day. I am often awakened by nightmares at night. I am just a young man in my thirties who weighs only 70.

Because of frequent quarrels, I don't feed my son and send him to school every day. Sometimes because the door is locked, I can't enter the house or go home. It is also a public opinion that a father cannot fulfill his obligations to his son. Who is supervising and tutoring my children's homework, and who is sending them to school and remedial classes? Only this year, you kicked me out of the house for three months, and I was not allowed to enter the house. Did I do my duty as a father on the way? I care about my son's education, and every doctor in my hospital has seen it. How dare people who think about outsiders all day talk nonsense!

Because I am sulking and silent all the year round, I always feel that I don't know what great things will happen one day. I am struggling on the verge of death, but I dare not shout out my inner pain. I am afraid that I will get into trouble, and I am afraid that my parents, who are nearly old, will suffer indignities. I'm afraid my three brothers will hit each other and cause great disaster. Moreover, the four brothers have their own things and their wages are low. They can't afford a lawsuit, and they can't afford to rebuild their new home. That's all.

Seeing all this, my parents often advised me to be patient in everything, so that everything at home would be smooth, and I should be patient with a knife in my heart, so as not to worry for a hundred days. He always scrimps and saves, has a large family, and bullies me as a foreigner with money and power. If you can't beat her, can't you hide?

In order to do everything according to my parents' instructions, I have to endure the unbearable violent beating, cruel abuse, mental torture and physical destruction in these 12 years!

In order to maintain this lingering, precarious and nominally unfamiliar marriage relationship in strange bedfellows, the Chinese New Year is the hardest time for me to die: I dare not go home to watch vigil with my elderly parents on the evening of 30th, let alone buy them a penny of new year's goods (with my son as witness), and even dare not reunite with my parents on the Mid-Autumn Festival.

In order to please my parents-in-law and let me live a stable year, I spent more than 2,000 yuan on two bottles of high-end necessities such as Wuliangye. The child's uncle said with a smile, drink Wuliangye this year and drink at least nine grains of liquid next year! I was so angry. I got drunk, drugged myself and threw up. For the first time in my life, I shed sad tears on New Year's Eve. This is a tear, my heart is bleeding! I remember one time, my father cried and said, as the old saying goes, raising children to prevent old age and saving up for hunger, what's the use of me raising you, getting married and being together? My birthday, my future burial place, Qingfeng ridge, you dare not pay a penny, do a little filial piety. Your other three brothers each contributed 2000 yuan.

After the Mid-Autumn Festival in 2009, the plaintiff Chuya proposed to hold a big banquet like a wedding for her twelfth birthday next year, in order to recover the spilled tens of thousands of yuan in gift money and return the trust-mart housing loan.

On April 29th, 2065438+00, I donated blood in the morning and went home. I felt weak and wanted to sleep for a while. Chu Huayou said, get up, you have to send my children to school quickly! What kind of blood do you donate? I put up with it. Because I just donated blood, how can I argue with her? I was so angry that I didn't eat. I go to the hospital to rest by bike. She took out my car keys, but she didn't. Then I took the mobile phone from her and went to work (Chuya's mobile phone changed several card numbers within one year, so I couldn't find it in order to keep in touch with outsiders behind my back). When I got home at night, I didn't cook. I found that my computer with more than 5 thousand yuan was smashed to pieces. I feel both pain and hatred. No sleep is allowed from 8 pm to 3 am. I had to call my parents and cry that if you didn't come to see the boat, I was killed in the house. Nobody knows yet. What should I do?

You don't know, Chuya bought himself old-age insurance and personal injury insurance for me and manager Chuan. The beneficiary is Chua, who has killed me. After she has made a plan to kill me, she can also get personal injury insurance! Chu watched me call my parents to complain and argued with me for more than two hours. Until dawn scratched my face, he closed the door and blocked me in the house. After calling my mother-in-law, when her mother-in-law called her son again, I thought: instead of beating me half to death in the house and having no witnesses, I might as well talk to the village head. Before I ran to the door of the village head, Chu Gang, the younger brother of the plaintiff, ran to me, punched and kicked me, and then picked up the mop on the roadside and hit me. Then Chua picked up a brick and smashed it (fortunately, I hid quickly, otherwise my head was broken), causing many soft tissue injuries to my waist and body. I hurried back to Meishan. My parents saw that I was injured in many places. Later, they asked me to go back to Jiangdian Hospital immediately and call the leaders and colleagues to have a look!

20 10 April 30th to August 12 noon (I stayed at my parents' house for nearly three months, and I was afraid to go back to the boat to get home. ) After being persuaded to mediate by Dean Ma Chao and Comrade Yuan of the Health Bureau, he returned to Chuanchong. Because I change the lock after every quarrel, I can't go home. As a result, I bit back and said I wouldn't go home for half a month, more than half a month and nearly three months!

At home, Chua didn't want to repent, but it was even worse. I have been abused many times. Mental torture made my memory decline, my hair fell off, I couldn't eat, and I couldn't sleep for more than a month.

201010/After 8 o'clock in the evening, the plaintiff Chua told me about her son's birthday while washing clothes with solar energy after taking a shower. The plaintiff said that there are only ten days before his son's birthday. what do you think? I said do as my parents said, and the plaintiff said angrily, what your parents said is nothing! Which county magistrate or director moved to the village to make a fortune without borrowing his children's marriage or parents' funeral, you poor wretch, it's no big deal, you fuck off and I'll do the bulk! Then she slapped me again, kicked me in the lower half, knocked me out, hit the wall and bit my arm. I tore her mouth open and ran to the hospital to hide.

I didn't know until the next day that she went to the police station that night and then went to my parents' place in Meishan to beat me and copy my parents' house. At midnight 1 1, the plaintiff Chuya broke into the house with his younger brother. In the dark, my parents were awakened by the sound of rushing to the door to hide, but they didn't hear anyone shouting outside, only heard a violent knock at the door. I woke up the neighbors upstairs and downstairs, and they all said angrily, we won't sleep ... only when we hear many people interfere do we run away.

Later, at 8: 00 a.m. on12, a group headed by my mother-in-law (Chua, her brother Chubang, her uncle and aunt, and her daughter-in-law) broke into the laboratory of Jiangdian Hospital and approached the corner of the room with the defendant Hu Shi. Pan Dai grabbed Hu's hair and hit his head against the wall. My uncle and aunt's daughter-in-law stripped Hu of her clothes, and Chuya tore Hu's mouth and punched him, causing dizziness, headache and testicular swelling. Especially in the office on the third floor of the hospital, in front of Dean Ma Chao; Crazy that I hit you several times, what can you do with me?

After breaking into the hospital, in order to achieve ulterior motives, in public and in broad daylight, he publicly shouted that I had plenty of money, and I didn't care if it cost him hundreds of thousands to go to court. Hu was pregnant outside and had an abortion. Who are you pregnant for? In which hospital did you have an abortion? You should bear legal responsibility ... this is a humiliating and degrading infringement!

20 10/0 At noon on October 3, Chu Huayou went to Hu Shi's fourth uncle, Hu Ding Zhongjia, and said that I had changed the front and rear locks of the ship and paid off a debt of 10,000 yuan. At that time, my uncle reproachfully said that you two were not divorced, and it was illegal to change the lock. You violated personal freedom and the right to live!

At 3 o'clock in the afternoon of 20 10/October 13, thanks to the care of the respected dean, Chu Ya was called to open the door first, and at the invitation of Hu Shizhi, she went home to beg for clothes and quilts, and immediately sent three people to accompany her. When he got off the bus, he got off at the door and saw his mother-in-law, Pan Dai, Uncle Chuya and others, who were preparing to ... Fortunately, someone accompanied him back to the boat, otherwise he would be washed away again.

On 20 10 year 10 month 17 day (the 10th day of the ninth lunar month, that is, 7: 00 p.m. the day before Chuanzong's birthday), Grandpa Chuanzong and defendant Hu Shi called each other and asked them to return to the boat the next morning to host Chuanzong's birthday party. They were rejected, scolded and cursed by Chua, his sister, Pan Dai and others. They were not allowed to visit Chuanzong before the divorce, and their communication was cut off. What's more, the Chuya family treats any family member as abuse, torture and violence.

Note: From the very beginning of the complaint, the plaintiff fabricated a lie about academic qualifications: he was a secondary school student who didn't get a diploma but only got a diploma, but suddenly he became a college graduate.