The teacher called me and said that the children were sleeping in class, listless and often fighting. What should I do?

Hello! I'm glad to meet you here. I hope my answer is helpful to you. See your question: "The teacher called me and said that the children are sleeping in class, listless and often fight with others. What should I do? " Later, I want to say that the second-grade children are in adolescence, and rebellion is normal. After all, this is his first step to explore the world. If parents want to solve the problem, they must first understand and accept their children's rebellious feelings, listen more and respect more, communicate their children's ideas more and gain their trust. The parent-child relationship has eased, and the child will naturally not be too rebellious.

First of all, when children are found to be poor students, parents also need to review and change their wrong way of treating their children, and give them an environment full of affirmation, encouragement and equal communication, so that children will naturally not hate learning. What should junior two students do if they rebel and don't study? For children who do not study during the rebellious period, parents can try the following educational methods:

Second, restore the parent-child relationship. When children don't want to study, many parents will scold or laugh at them because of their anxiety. Adolescent children are the most rebellious and will rebel against their parents. There is no communication between them, so the first thing parents should do is to repair the relationship and enter their hearts through empathy. A good relationship is the basis for solving problems.

Thirdly, analyze the reasons why you don't want to study with your children. After the parent-child relationship is improved, you can talk to your child about the reasons why you don't want to learn: you can't learn, the teacher can't teach well, or you are bullied by your classmates? After finding the reason, we can carry out it in a targeted way: is it because we don't have enough methods, are we not confident, or are we not working hard enough? If teachers are hard to teach, what can be done to reduce children's dependence on teachers? If children are bullied by classmates, how can they help them learn to deal with interpersonal relationships better?

Finally, pay attention to children's psychological state in adolescence. Children's mood fluctuates greatly, and their self-regulation ability is not strong enough. They are prone to some psychological problems, such as depression and anxiety, which will affect their learning state. Parents can also learn relevant knowledge. Help children adjust their mental state and seek professional psychological help in time when necessary.