Men call off weddings and break up.

If love has a shelf life, how long is this shelf life?

Last year, she told me that she broke up.

Her breakup surprised me. After all, when she graduated from college three years ago, she went to his hometown without hesitation and told me that she would recognize him all her life.

I know the process of understanding between them. They first met online, thousands of miles apart.

At that time, she and I were both in high school. She told me all day that she met a boy online, who was in our grade and got good grades. She seems to like him a little.

When I was in high school, it was Grade Two. At that time, I also had a boy who chatted well on the Internet. He is a grade older than me. He often encourages me. Even sometimes I don't understand math problems, so I send them to him, and he helps me solve them.

But chatting belongs to chatting. After all, we have never met at a distance. I don't think most people will have the determination to be together.

Just like the boy who chatted well online, I don't even know who he is among my qq friends now. Maybe he has deleted me.

But she's different. They have been talking. Even in the summer vacation after graduating from high school, he came to our city to play. At that time, they were not together, so she called me, and we accompanied him around all the scenic spots worth visiting in this city.

Then she told me that their university was registered in a city, and I realized at that time that there would be stories between them.

Sure enough, she said she was in love only half a month after she was a freshman. I knew it clearly and smiled: "It's him!"

She said yes, he confessed to me last night, and he was really happy.

I also think it's a wonderful feeling. They met in Grade Two. They haven't seen each other for two years in high school and haven't even sent photos to each other. They just encouraged each other to study and were admitted to the same university after meeting.

She said that it was just an expression at the time, but I didn't expect to really work hard in this direction later. Although they didn't go to college later, the boy's grades were much better than hers, and he did better in the college entrance examination and natural school.

However, in a city, everything is fine.

02

This is the most dramatic love I have ever seen in my life, but it can also last until the end. Besides, think about it, there are some romantic elements in it.

They are each other's first love. When they are together, she often sprinkles dog food. In every photo, they all smile brightly under the camera.

She said that she was so lucky that she met the only thrill on the Internet. He was humble and low-key, and worked hard. In short, in her opinion, he is good everywhere.

Four years in college, two people are very sweet. So, after graduation, she returned to work with him in her city without hesitation.

As he was the only child in the family, he told her that he would not go to other cities. She said, "It doesn't matter. I have a younger brother at home. I can follow you. "

She went there after graduation, and our contact decreased. Chat occasionally when you are free, talk about the recent situation, and some things during your study.

She hardly tells me about her love, and I won't ask unless others tell me on their own initiative. But I think according to their mature and reliable temperament, love must be smooth sailing.

Before she told me that she would come back, her love was beautiful in my heart. I think they can grow old together, there is no doubt about it.

However, in the three months last year, I received two pieces of heavy news in succession.

First, she told me that she planned to get married on May Day. I heard that this is also a successful love run, from school uniforms to wedding dresses, how wonderful, I am very happy.

At that time, all the wedding invitations were shown to me, but they had not been sent out yet. She made two invitations and asked me which one looked good. I chose one, and she said I thought it was this one, so I ordered this one.

After chatting for a while, she said that she didn't know why, and she was very flustered, worried and even scared.

03

I said it was normal. Many people who are getting married have this feeling. After all, it is a major event in life. It's not normal if they don't have ups and downs in their hearts.

Later, we talked about going abroad. After hanging up the video, I began to look at the ticket information. After all, there are many people traveling during May Day, so I must book tickets early.

Because another friend said she was going to attend the wedding, I went to see her first to see when I could buy tickets so that we could buy them together. But before I bought the ticket, less than half a month later, she told me that she would come back. Can you send me some of her things temporarily?

I was surprised: "What are you doing? How did you come back at this time? "

Her tone was calm: "I broke up."

I almost didn't hold my phone steady. I suspect that I heard wrong. Break up? She said yes, I have bought tickets for four days. I packed my things and took them back these two days. If not, I'll send it to you first.

I continued to ask, "What's the matter with you?"

She said she didn't know either.

Their relationship began to have problems in the second year of her life. There is less communication between two people, as if there is nothing to say, and there is no longer the feeling of sweet love between two people. Even when taking wedding photos, I am not happy.

Marriage was proposed by parents at home. It's time to get married after all this talk.

Both of them used to be indifferent, but as the wedding approached, she began to feel anxious. He also used overtime as an excuse to come back late, sometimes not at all.

Girls are very sensitive. She realized all these changes and finally couldn't hold back. She said first: "Let's break up."

She told him on WeChat that he didn't come back that night and didn't return to her WeChat until the next afternoon: "Well, I have cancelled the wedding two months later. I wish you all the best in the future. "

I think about it, he is also well thought out.

As soon as I heard it, my first reaction was: Is he dating someone else? She shook her head. I can assure you, he didn't. He told me that he never did anything wrong to me.

As she said, "After six years of love, there was no third party, but two months before marriage, we were both divorced."

04

I wonder if he is afraid to face her, or for other reasons? He didn't come back for the next four days, and he didn't see her off until she left.

This love, which began in high school, came to an abrupt end almost at the moment of marriage. I'll pick her up when she comes back. I'm afraid she's in a bad mood.

But when I saw her, I found it wasn't as bad as I thought. She was sad, but she said she was more of a relaxed feeling.

Because she said that during that time, she really felt depressed. Neither of them betrayed each other, but the power of feelings seems to be exhausted, and they are familiar and unfamiliar with each other.

He was cold, and she panicked: Are we going to live like this all our lives?

So she broke up first, and he didn't keep anything.

He stopped contacting her when he came back. On the contrary, his mother sent her a lot of messages saying that she was a good girl and asked her to come back and take good care of herself. Unfortunately, she didn't get married in the end. Later, I often asked her about looking for a job, and even watched the weather forecast here to remind her to take an umbrella when it rains.

She and his mother always get along well. She has a good temper and tries to be kind, which is very popular with her mother.

She was a little sad, and then she said, I feel that these years, like a dream, I talked about a love in my dream, and he disappeared when I woke up.

A year later, on her birthday at the end of last month, he sent a message of blessing, which arrived at twelve o'clock in the morning on time. She thanked her.

He said no, and then he was silent. No one spoke anymore.

Some people, separation is the end of the world.

Love has always been a pity, right and wrong are indistinguishable, everyone is a director and a protagonist, but no one dares to really say what it looks like before the real dust settles.

We are all lost walkers and unloved people.