How to write help information?

When you do something, you will ask for help if you need it. Asking for help should be knowledgeable, thick-skinned and "black". However, being black doesn't mean you want to curry favor with others, but curry favor with others is the best policy. Specifically, it is not difficult for really powerful people to ask for help, as long as they master these nine rough black skills through the following nine rough black skills.

First, move with emotion and play emotional cards.

When you ask for help, you should be good at touching people with your feelings, for example, arousing their sympathy, empathy or other emotions. We are all sentient beings. As long as your feelings are in place, no matter what difficulties, you will be diligent and unswervingly opposed.

Second, be self-centered and conquer each other's hearts.

Aggressiveness is not only the essence of military strategy, but also a bold coup to ask for help. As long as you can find and manipulate each other's psychology and know what they need, you can conquer each other's hearts. Then, you don't have to ask for many things at all, and the other party will take the initiative to help you.

Third, skillfully use provocation to force ducks to be put on the shelves.

When asking for help, whether the other person likes it or not, as long as you can skillfully stimulate the other person to submit, things will be easy. Of course, stimulation is the last resort. Even if things are done, people will not be happy, and there will be some negative effects. So be sure to use it with caution.

Fourth, befriend, first make good relations.

Asking people to do things depends on relationships. If someone has nothing to do with you, even if you bring a heavy gift or bring great benefits to the other party, the other party may not believe you and help you. To establish a good relationship, we must master the skills of getting close to each other. In fact, anyone who has had the experience of asking for help should know that it is often not good to ask for help directly after meeting someone. Only by making friends first and getting closer to each other can things be easy.

Five, do a good job, ready to do enough.

Ask for help to get to know each other, find out each other's temperament and some main situations, and then make preparations for words or strategies according to these situations, so as to be targeted and not to fight unprepared battles. This will have a much higher success rate.

Six, good at giving gifts, courtesy.

You can't ask for help with one mouth and empty hands. Although this may be successful, it is very rare after all. We should know that "serving others is soft, eating people is short" and "serving people's wealth and eliminating disasters for others". If the other person accepts your gift, he will generally do things for you wholeheartedly. If the other party doesn't accept it, even if the other party agrees to you, I'm afraid you won't be at ease.

Seven, follow the trend, it is difficult for the other party to refuse.

The so-called follow the crowd means that in the process of asking someone to do something, you should have a bright eye, be good at grasping the other person's words or the factors that can be used in the other person's words, and put forward what you want to do conveniently, so that the other person can hardly refuse. For example, if the other party boasts that he has recently made a windfall and is rich, you can easily get a loan.

Eight, the exchange of interests, give up to get.

People are very smart nowadays. They often don't see rabbits and scatter eagles, so it is generally difficult to help you for free. Therefore, when seeking help, we should be good at exchanging interests. In other words, give the other person enough benefits, or describe the benefits he can get after helping you get things done, so that the other person can't help. Compared with the gift-giving mentioned above, there is still a difference in interest exchange. More targeted and centered on the needs of the other party.

Nine, release the smoke screen to attract the other side to take the bait.

To release the thick black skill of smoke screen is not to ask for help directly, but to create a situation, guide the other side, let the other side's thinking go beyond the direction of helping you, and then take the initiative to enter your bureau and help you. This is a military strategy to bold the application of black wisdom. The specific methods of releasing smoke screen include introducing smoke from the east to the west, crossing the sea in secret and so on. As long as there are strategies in Sun Tzu's Art of War, they can be used to ask for help.