How to reply to the elder's New Year message?

First of all, thank each other, and then say that I will convey your regards to my parents and express my heartfelt thanks to you on behalf of my parents.

In recent years, the word EQ is often mentioned by people. What exactly is high emotional intelligence? In the course of life, there are people with high emotional intelligence in the workplace and business. The behaviors shown by these people generally have the following 30 aspects. Please sit down accordingly.

1, think of others: don't always think of me for everyone, always think of everyone for me.

2, do not argue with others: it is normal to have opinions, talk calmly, and do not argue with others.

3. Don't try to transform others: No matter how excellent you are, don't always try to transform others.

4, low-key and unobtrusive: be low-key, don't be too ostentatious, so as not to be targeted by others.

When others make fun of you, laugh at yourself instead of fighting back: learning to laugh at yourself is the best way to fight back.

6. Don't make fun of others: especially don't make fun of others' looks.

7, do not expose people's shortcomings: hit people without hitting their faces, expose people without exposing their shortcomings. To expose a person's shortcomings is to dig a hole for yourself.

8. Praise others behind their backs: Say nice things about others behind their backs, and you are welcome wherever you go.

9. Don't brag at ordinary times: leave some room for yourself. Without Jin Gangzuan, don't blow porcelain.

10. Don't coldly refuse other people's requests: when others ask you for help, extend a warm hand and don't say "I'm not available".

1 1. Remember everyone's name: even if you have only met him once, you should be able to name him next time.

12, criticize others and make them feel like spring breeze: criticize others not to hit the nail on the head, but to be as tactful as spring breeze.

13. Listen carefully when communicating: listen to others patiently and don't interrupt others in a hurry.

14, full of enthusiasm: able to infect others and respect everyone around you at ordinary times.

15, be broad-minded: be tolerant, be broad-minded, and don't find fault in eggs.

16. Communicate from the perspective of others: when communicating, first think from the perspective of the other party.

17, praise more and praise more: complain less and criticize less. Praise others more, don't hang your face all day as if others owe you.

18, do things in moderation: people with high emotional intelligence are generally more trustworthy and punctual, can grasp the scale and do things appropriately.

19, save face for others: no matter how good the relationship is, don't hurt others' face.

20, shallow but not deep: friendship is not enough, just say a few words, people with high emotional intelligence, everyone knows what people say.

2 1, joking is measured: knowing how to be measured makes people happy without embarrassment.

22, self-knowledge: accurately identify your strengths and weaknesses, this awareness can cultivate strong self-confidence.

23. Know how to control your emotions: People with high emotional intelligence can control emotional fluctuations and avoid the influence of bad emotions.

24, can get along with most people: regardless of age, status, can get along with most people fully and happily.

Helpful: Being able to let go of what you are doing, stop and pay attention to others from time to time, and lend a helping hand to those in need.

26. Dare to say no at critical times: know when and how to refuse others, and have strong psychological endurance to politely and politely refuse.

27, not willful, not impulsive: willfulness will make people very disgusted, but also make people feel immature. People with high emotional intelligence generally take the initiative to communicate and solve problems.

28. Don't say: People with high emotional intelligence generally say. If this matter has nothing to do with themselves, half of them will turn a blind eye. If it's about themselves, they will communicate privately.

29. Don't do everything yourself: People with high emotional intelligence generally don't kill each other, especially when it comes to public affairs. They don't offend their personal feelings for work, and usually stop.

30. Ability to observe words and observe colors: People with high emotional intelligence know how to deal with complex environment, and observing words and colors is the core factor for them to handle interpersonal relationships perfectly.