What psychology is it that boys don't return messages after breaking up?

You may not believe what I said, but from our men's point of view, there is really nothing impolite about breaking up. I don't reply to you because I hate you, but I simply don't want to reply to you, because we know that once I reply to your message, you will definitely send countless messages in the future.

For example, because you lost him, you sent him a short composition. You think the other person will be moved after reading it, and the prodigal son will turn around, right? But in fact, the first reaction of the other party to receive your message is really annoying. Don't delay me telling my brother!

Are you clear? I ignore you after breaking up, not because they are heartless, but simply afraid of trouble.

Really, men are not stupid. They avoid you because they know that he can't give you what you want and can't satisfy what you want. For example, if the other person breaks up with you, you just send him a message to make peace, complain, apologize and beg. Am I right?

What about the boys? They must have thought it through when they broke up with you. In other words, he was ready to break up with you before he officially broke up with you. It is difficult for you to change his mind at this time, and he knows it.

So instead of waiting for you to send him a small composition, he might as well cut off your thoughts from the beginning, such as blackening the whole network, swearing, "not loving" and "impossible", all in order not to contact you and interrupt your negative emotions, you know?

It has nothing to do with love or not. As long as you ask, it is not love. But you girls like to use "love or not" to explain all men's behavior. Remember, "love" has never been the motivation for boys to do things, but "rationality" is.

Because for a man, if he does something unconditionally just for love, it is no different from "licking a dog".

They broke up with you because they were uncomfortable with you, and he didn't want to bear your emotions and your demands any more, so even if he still loves you at the moment, he would consider the future rationally. The advantage of reason is that he will never do anything beyond his ability, not because he doesn't want to, but because he can't.

So at this time, if you insist on pestering him and making peace with him, then you will form a strong confrontation with each other. He just thinks, "I'm tired of it. Why is it so difficult to break up with you? "

At this time, he is not in the mood to think whether he still loves you or not, only that you are preventing him from doing something.

This is human nature. The more obstacles, the stronger his will to do it. Think for yourself if you don't believe me. Do your parents force you to do many things? The more reluctant, the more forbidden, the more want to do?

So it's important for you to be calm after breaking up. Human nature should be like this, and confrontation will only make his heart farther and farther away from you. He wants to break up, so you just let him. He wants you not to look for him. Well, you should contact him less during this time.

When a man breaks up, he usually feels cool and free first. After a while, he feels cool, and then he will feel pain.

Therefore, opening up the pattern, human nature is firm, which is the same as when your parents chased you to feed when you were a child. The more they chase you to feed, the less you will eat or play. But when they stop chasing you to feed, they will put the rice aside for a while, and you will naturally eat when you are hungry.

The reason is the same, so if you want to conquer a heartless man, it is definitely not that you are moved or begging for help, but that you are more rational than him.

Remember, the beginning of a relationship often begins with a man's initiative and ends with a woman's abandonment. If you don't want to end it, it's hard for you to completely disconnect.

But the premise is that you can't be scared away by his rude words, and you can't just start to doubt yourself because of his rude words. But to conform to human nature and gradually grasp the direction of this relationship, understand?