As an old man in the workplace, how should you escape from the whirlpool of resignation-job hunting-complaining-resignation?

I think it is largely due to my mentality. If you lower your mentality, don’t be too high-minded and look for a job that either you really like or a job with a high salary. For a job with plenty of time, you must have the same amount of money, time, and hobbies. Otherwise, you will be very tired when you go to work every day, and you will wonder why you go to work.

I once had such an experience. I felt that I was too busy and the salary was low in a company, so I was very unhappy. I would feel very tired when I got up every day. I feel like I have no hope in life, living like a zombie. Later I decided to resign, but I was very unhappy for a period of time after resigning. I felt that I was wasting my life by applying for various overseas resumes.

I would go to any interview. At first I would pick and choose, thinking this would not work or that would not work. When there were not many interviews later, I became even more panicked. I was afraid that I would just fall into this trap. . I quickly interviewed with a company and started my journey to work. It was precisely because I was too anxious that I fell into the same mood as when I was working in my last company...

I started complaining, feeling that the salary was low, there were no development prospects, and I was too busy. very. All in all, I am unhappy in various ways, and I still feel very tired when I open my eyes every day. So I resigned again... After resigning this time, I calmly thought about what I wanted and why I was so busy but not fulfilled.

After thinking about the reasons, I started to make my own plans, figure out where to develop, and figure out what I wanted. It is no longer about overseas investment resumes, but choosing a company you like to apply for. Even if the company I like does not come to notify me for an interview, I will not panic. I will enrich myself during this time, read books, exercise, Spend time with your family so that you don't feel like you're wasting your time.

Now I am doing what I like in an industry I like. Even if the salary is not high, I will accept it because I see great development prospects in my future and I am very happy. , after I get up every day, I start to look forward to what work will be waiting for me today, and what new and fun things will be waiting for me.