Father 10 lost contact and sent nearly 400,000 home. How did the two sons find their father before the Spring Festival?

10 years ago, Shao He, a native of Henan, quarreled with his wife over trifles in Beijing and left the construction site with his luggage. Since then, he has lost contact with his family. Since 10, he has been wandering around and working, saving money in the bank cards of his two sons every year, totaling nearly 400,000. This year, 65438+ 10/8, after Shao He deposited 67200 yuan in his son's bank card, his son Shao immediately rushed from Zhengzhou to the bank where his father remitted money, and began to focus on finding his father. Then his brother Shao Biao also rushed to Nanjing. The two brothers searched for a week, but there was still no sign of their father. Master Shao He, where the hell are you? Family members can't get through it. The Spring Festival is coming soon. Get together with your family as soon as possible. Your son brings a lot of good news!

Yangzi Evening News All-Media Reporter Mei Jianming

Stubborn father

A quarrel, lost contact,/kloc-haven't been home for 0/0 years.

Shaohe's hometown is in Taizhuang, Shangcai County, Zhumadian, and he is 62 years old this year.

As early as June 2007, Shao, 2 1 year-old, came to Beijing to work with his father and brother. "My brother and I work in a water station. We sent bottled mineral water to our customers. At that time, wages were not high. My father works in a construction site in Beijing and my mother works at home. We are very bitter and tired, but we feel very satisfied. " Shao told the Yangzi Evening News reporter that at that time, the two brothers were equipped with mobile phones for the convenience of work, and the mother also bought a mobile phone in her hometown. Only father didn't. After they get their salary every month, they will deposit it in the bank card in Beijing. Although there is not much left except for the daily expenses, they are still very happy.

It started when my mother came to Beijing to visit their father and son. At that time, because of some trivial matters, my mother and father, who had just arrived in Beijing, had some arguments. In a rage, my father threatened to go where his wife couldn't see him. "At that time, my father left the construction site with luggage, which was a quilt and some clothes." Shao said that after they knew about it, they quickly looked around. The size of Beijing makes the mother and son unable to cope. After searching for a few days, they can only choose to give up.

"At that time, I just thought that my father was just angry at the moment. Maybe he will go back to his hometown in Henan after he gets angry. At least he will definitely go back for the New Year. " Shao said that at the end of 2007, after the two brothers returned home, they waited until New Year's Eve, and there was no sign of their father.

Since then, one year, two years ... 10 years, my father never went home for the New Year, and he never contacted his family.

Silent fatherly love

Working hard to earn money, 10 remitted nearly 400,000 to two sons.

Although in 10, this man named Shao He never contacted his wife and two sons at home. But there is one thing he insisted on doing for 10 years. As a father, he has not forgotten his responsibility-making money to support his family.

Surprisingly, during the period of 10, from 30,000 yuan in 2008 to 67,200 yuan in 20 17+ 18/0/0, Shao He never stopped saving money on his son's card.

"I calculated that in the first four years, I saved 30,000 to 40,000 yuan in my bank card every year. Later, maybe the salary went up. He deposits 50,000 to 60,000 yuan into my brother's bank card every year. " Shao said that 50,000 yuan was saved in 20 15, 65,000 yuan in 20 16 and 67,200 yuan in 20 17. In the last three years, I have saved more than180,000.

"When I was working in Beijing, my father remembered my mother's phone number and my brother's bank card. /kloc-for 0/0 years, he has been saving money in our bank card, which is equivalent to sending us money. " Shao choked and said that the two brothers gave their bank cards to their mothers for safekeeping, except that the younger brother spent hundreds of thousands to buy a house, and the rest did not move.

"He wanted to be a father's responsibility, and he did it, but he endured hardships and saved money himself, which made us feel even worse, especially my mother, who was once desperate." Shao said to him.

■ Father in the eyes of a son

A little withdrawn, but a responsible and good father.

In Shao's memory, his father's impression has been deeply imprinted in his mind. Although he is so old, his father has only been with him for 200 days, and the rest of the time his father is working hard outside.

Shao said that his father is a bricklayer, good at building walls, and he is on the construction site all the year round. My father's childhood was miserable, and my mother died shortly after he was born. When I was in junior high school, my father died unfortunately and suddenly became an orphan. "When he was a child, he was poor and had no brothers or sisters. After my grandparents died, he dropped out of school. In order to live, he had to change his age and go out to work. " Shao said that after earning money, he went home to build a house, married his mother and gave birth to their two brothers. Since then, the family has relied on him to work alone.

But in Shao's view, even in the 10 years when he left home, his father continued to remit money to his family, which has proved that his father is an extremely responsible person and a good father.

Brothers are looking for their father.

In Nanjing! The deposit revealed the whereabouts, and the two brothers came to Ning to look for their father.

18 10 18, Shao He deposited a sum of money into the bank card of his eldest son Shao Biao at the ATM of a bank at No.366 Zhongshan Road, Nanjing. This information was quickly transmitted to the son's mobile phone, and the younger son Shao immediately rushed to Nanjing to find his father. "I take this bank as the center and look around the corner. I wish I could find my father, but I didn't see my father until evening. " Shao said that in desperation, he had to ask the Nanjing police for help. /kloc-on the afternoon of 0/9, my brother Shao Biao also arrived in Nanjing.

Shao told the Yangzi Evening News reporter that 10 years ago, every time my father saved money, the two brothers rushed to find it along the address where the money was remitted, but they always went with hope and returned disappointed. Shao said that according to the place where his father 10 sent money, he knew that his father had been to Qingdao, Shandong Province after leaving Beijing and had been in Nanjing for the last three or four years.

"In order to wait for my father, although we no longer work in Beijing, not only have we been afraid to change our bank card, but my mother's mobile phone number has never been changed. My father should remember, but he never called. " Thinking of his father, Shao's eyes turned red and he shed tears again.

He said that their brother didn't want his father's money, but felt that he was alone outside, and no one would take care of him if he got sick. In case of any accident, no one knows. And every year, the short message of saving money from the mobile phone is the news that my father reported them to be safe.

"We know that my father is still healthy and alive, and I still remember my mother and our brother." Shao said he was crying here.

With the help of the police, the monitoring found that Shao He could not catch up with him.

Shao went to the Xinjiekou Police Station of Nanjing Xuanwu Public Security Bureau for help on the night of 18 after many unsuccessful searches. After listening to Shao's narrative, Wang Jianjun, a policeman on duty, reported to the leader, and the police station decided to help Shao find Shao He.

Wang Jianjun told reporters that they looked at the monitoring around Shao He's bank and looked for his action track. Several police stations in their sub-bureau and two police stations in Gulou sub-bureau sent more than a dozen policemen to look for them according to the monitoring clues. However, because of the time difference in the monitoring screen, they often rushed to the place where Shao He was found to look around, and everyone was gone.

"/kloc-in the early morning of 0/8, Shao He went from Anren Street to beijing east road, went to the Arts and Crafts Building to rest, and went to a nearby bank to deposit money in the morning. Later, I went to Shipopo Lane along beijing east road and went back to rest at night. Then I went to Jiefangmen, went north to Zhongyang Road, and took another trip to Hunan Road. On the 22 nd, he went to the new model road community and disappeared from the monitoring. " Police officer Wang told reporters that there are multiple exits in this community, and there may be no monitoring when going out. And these places, they also found one by one, no harvest.

Shao told reporters that when he saw the surveillance video, he recognized his father at a glance. "I cried when I saw the video. In the video, I found that my father only ate one meal for two days, or he brought it himself. " Shao said that after so many years of hard work, his black-haired father became bald and much older. The reporter saw from these videos that Shao He was dragging a small trailer in his hand, picking up garbage along the way, which was very mobile and even homeless.

If you see Master Shao, please call our hotline 96096.

■ The call of the son

Life is getting better and better

Father, go home!

"Father, where are you? Let's go home for the New Year together! " Tired of searching, Shao fiddled with his father's photo with his mobile phone, crying and talking to himself. He told reporters that this time he came out to find his father and was hiding from his mother. "Every time I look for it with hope, I return empty-handed. This year's 6 1 year-old mother is numb and can no longer stand the blow. " Shao said that his father didn't use a mobile phone, and his thinking might still be 10 years ago, and his family was still so difficult.

Actually, all this has changed now. Shao married a girl in Sanmenxia the year before last. Now I work in a moving company in Zhengzhou, with a monthly income of nearly ten thousand yuan, and my wife's monthly income is three or four thousand yuan. On 20 10, Shao Quanquan bought a suite in Sanmenxia, and bought another one by mortgage last year. My brother got married again after divorce, and now he has a son who also bought a house in Zhengzhou. My mother lives in a big house in her hometown, but what she lacks is her father.

"Life at home is better now, he just needs to go home to support the elderly." Shao said to him.

■ Love reminder

After finding the old man, go home slowly.

Director Zhang Chun of Nanjing Psychological Crisis Intervention Center suggested that after finding Master Shao He, there are several points to pay attention to:

First, don't mention the past to avoid making Shao He feel anxious and let him choose to escape again; For example, don't ask Shao He why he didn't go home after meeting 10 years.

Second, don't break the existing balance, that is, don't rush to call him home, let him have a gradual adaptation process;

Third, first of all, we must eliminate Shao He's doubts; In addition to interpersonal barriers, Shao He is also afraid of going home. Only by getting along well with my son can we slowly find a reason to let him return to his family.