Seeking the integrity of love attraction

Why does flirting attract girls to like you by sending the first post first?

Flirting is to "attack" each other with words and actions. I will spend a lot of space in my new course to teach students how to flirt through flirting. I'll let you know when the new tutorial comes out. ) Most otaku don't know what flirting is and can't flirt. Either naked flattery or naked swearing. Flattery makes people feel sick, and swearing makes people jump. Beating and cursing should be combined with humor, just like massage, as gentle as soft. How to balance this measure? I think the key lies in the contradiction between language and body language, and the disharmony between surface and inner. What do you mean? You talk about her, but she can feel that you like her in your heart. She knows you're joking, not really swearing. For example, three years ago, when I was a rookie picking up girls like most of my buddies, one of my classmates was a master at picking up girls. I observed that his habit of chatting on QQ was completely different from mine, and all the girls were called "little coquettish" and so on. I always say hello politely. Dig deeper, flirting will make girls call is another reason. Few people understand this truth, which is too subtle to explain clearly. That is-flirting can give girls a deep sense of security. Because when flirting, it is often to "expose" the shortcomings of girls. For example, she is lazy, greedy, lewd and greedy. When you expose her shortcomings in a joking tone, she can feel your acceptance and tolerance of her shortcomings. Everyone wants others to like him, not only for his advantages, but also for his shortcomings. When you praise a person's advantages and say that you like him because of this advantage, he is under great pressure. In order to keep a good impression in front of you, you should always appear in front of you wearing this mask. This kind of stress and fear hinders the establishment of intimate relationship with you. Some men are very kind to women, why don't women accept them? It is also related to the "acceptance of shortcomings" just mentioned. Good men like to compliment women and talk about their advantages. In this way, women will be afraid that you will see her ugly and selfish side. When she sees you, she must put on a mask. Tired and stressed. It's better to have sex with a punk and be happy! Understand this truth, how should we treat girls?

First, you should observe her shortcomings. Although she is trying to cover up and hide it, you can still see it with keen eyes. Point it out in a joking tone when you see it. Tell her that I see that you are ugly, and I also see that you are selfish and bad; But I'm not afraid, I'm not disgusting, I accept it, and I even like it. Finally, end today's lecture with a small example. The little girl I met yesterday has just begun to transform from a girl to a player. She said that she is very demanding of her boyfriend, but she is embarrassed to say the specific requirements. I understand that she finds it difficult to ask men for money, which shows that she has a child's personality of worshipping money, but she can't accept it herself. I joked, "I see. Find a rich boyfriend quickly. Next time I come out for dinner, I can follow.

All right! Let's call it a day! See you in the post next week! I wish my buddies more contact with their beloved mm and grasp their own happiness.