Why can't I forget my ex-girlfriend? She cheated on me. I was drunk and sent her a message last night, even though she would harass and intercept her.

There must be many reasons why the person you love should let go, but there are only two reasons: one is because of you, and the other is because of her. I think you should first find out what the real reason is, so that you can face it calmly. Is she still worthy of deep love? Is it possible for you to continue loving her? If you want to let go of someone you love deeply, it is incurable.

It is inevitable that you must spend the hardest first three months, even five months or more. Because, after all, I loved you deeply, and my tears will stop flowing when I think of the bits and pieces together at night. But life goes on. She's not the only one in your life. You have parents, friends, relatives, brothers and sisters. Strictly speaking, no one is your real day. If you still want to work or go to school, you must keep going, or you will have to give up yourself. In the meantime, all you have to do is delete all the contact information related to him, and don't disconnect. Since there is no hope, don't bother yourself.

After going through this difficult period, I believe you have slowly returned to the right track. When your work and study begin to recover, you may still think of him, or you may be a little heartbroken, but you won't cry again. At this time, you can basically stand on high and examine this once-emotional relationship. The mind that was carried away by passion in the past is now waking up. In the meantime, you should take the initiative to do something to divert your attention, such as exercising, such as reading.

Now about a year has passed, you will still think of this person again, but you may not be sad anymore. There are many reasons, and we will understand them gradually.

I just want to tell you that everyone will experience unforgettable love, but in real life, there are not only love, but also responsibilities and obligations. Everyone has the right to love and can enjoy the happiness of love, but everyone must also accept the pain of love, bear the responsibilities entrusted to us by the state and society, and bear all the consequences brought about by millions of years of human evolution.

There is nothing wrong with loving someone, and it is normal to forget someone. I can only say that the person who can't leave his inner circle after death is not mature enough.

Time is the best medicine to cure all the pains in the world. Life exists because of time. Without time, there is nothing.