I texted others several times and didn't reply to me.

Have you ever met someone who didn't return your message for more than three times in a row? Please pay attention, please don't contact him again! As for why, this article will tell you.

1、? Either he didn't see it or he pretended not to see it.

There's always a reason for not returning messages.

The first time I didn't reply, it might be because the other party really didn't see it, or it was too late when she saw it. Think about it, it seems that there is no need to reply to you. So, forgive him this time.

The second time he didn't reply, it may be because he was thinking about how to reply to you, or he felt that this question didn't seem worth replying, or it was difficult to reply. Okay, I'll take it. Take it again.

However, if you still don't reply for the third time, there are only two reasons left. First, he didn't see your message at all. Maybe he lost his cell phone, maybe he didn't use it anymore, or maybe he swiped his card. Anyway, he didn't see or read your message. Second, he had seen it, but he didn't want to go back at all, so he pretended not to see it.

2、? For those who haven't seen your news, ask him directly.

What should you do if that person really can't see your message and can't reply to you because of his mobile phone? Even a fool should know how to answer this question, so stop sending messages. Are you no different from calling the dead? You can contact him in other ways, or even ask him directly. If he really lost his mobile phone, or changed his mobile phone number, or his mobile phone was swiped and he couldn't see your information, it was just an accident.

However, when face to face, be sure to look him in the eye to see if he really can't reply to you because of the fault of his mobile phone. It's possible. However, it is also possible that he is lying to you.

3、? For those who really don't want to reply you, give up.

More people didn't actually see your news, but they did and didn't want to reply at all. In this case, you should think carefully, why did you get such a cold reception? Is the message you sent a sales advertisement? Is the message you sent an empty holiday wish? Did he deliberately avoid you because you brought him some kind of harassment? Does he have a problem with you? Or does he think he should keep his distance from you?

Whatever the reason, you should give up the idea of continuing to contact each other. Believe me, no matter how active you are and how you change the way you communicate, you won't change the other person's mind. Give up, this is your only wise choice.

4、? Silence is also a silent refusal.

No one wants to refuse others, because refusing means offending each other. However, direct refusal is sometimes more kind than silence.

Once an author sent a lot of information to the editor, but the other party didn't reply. The author just wants the editor to tell himself: Has his contribution been approved? But the editor resolutely refused to reply and answered the other party with silence. Finally, the author got angry and sent a message to scold each other. Cool is cool, but the other party still didn't answer. The editor didn't bear it, but-directly hacked the author.

There are many hidden rules in life, and silence is one of them, you have to understand. Not informing you that you have been applied, accepted and signed is equivalent to telling you: I'm sorry, you were rejected. So, please be smart and leave when it's time to go. Finally, don't tear your face.

5、? It's not my duty to answer.

No one needs to reply to you, which is not his obligation, unless he is your subordinate, your partner or your spouse. Otherwise, no matter how much you say, the other party has the right not to reply to your question, just thinking that you are talking to yourself. Remember, you are only sending a notice or asking the other party, but the notice does not mean that the other party must agree, and the request does not mean that the place must answer. If you don't reply to you again and again, you have no choice but to respect each other's wishes. Please spend time with people who are willing to reply to you.

6. People who don't take the initiative to contact you will never contact you because you are not important to him.

Taking the initiative to contact others has nothing to do with personality, but only with importance. Even the most introverted people will take the initiative to contact the people they value for fear of losing each other. On the contrary, if you are dispensable or insignificant to him, why should he waste time contacting you? Those who never take the initiative to contact you, he will never contact you, you are just a decoration in his circle of friends, that's all.

I once saw a man and a woman drinking coffee in a cafe. That man is always talking, but that woman doesn't talk much. From the man's words, I can hear that they are only dating for the first time. The man is very enthusiastic and asks the woman some questions from time to time. But this woman nodded occasionally and answered "yes" several times, so there was no more words. Needless to say, this blind date is likely to be ruined. Even if this woman is introverted and conservative, it is impossible not to have a word to express, right? I even wonder, if they don't chat face to face in the cafe, but communicate on their mobile phones, what kind of scene would it be? Will that woman be too lazy to reply to messages?

People who don't have you in mind, your information is just harassment for them. The person who has you in mind will call you back no matter how busy and tired he is, because he really doesn't want to keep you waiting too long.

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