My girlfriend didn't take the initiative to call me. Excuse me, what's the situation? Please ask some psychological people to relieve it. Thank you!

First of all, I think you care too much about her. If you care too much, you will care no matter what she does, even if you do nothing, you still care. I think you are pressing too hard, and there is no room for each other to breathe.

Secondly, on the question of love or not, she once wanted to leave you, because of what? Because this relationship is unrealistic? I think it is often really not enough love. If he really loves you, he will be as worried and anxious as you are, and he will feel reluctant to part with you and can't live without you, instead of making you unable to find her now. Love is love, love everything, and not loving everything is an excuse.

Third, you said that you begged her to stay? Or does she never want to continue this relationship that can't be accompanied? You have to believe that if a person loves you, he will never let you worry about her, never let you find any reason to doubt her love for you, and never ask her to stay.

Finally, things became clear. The reason why such feelings fascinate you is because you don't know her well enough, and you don't know her mystery well enough. She will only show you what she wants you to see. This is really not love, you don't need to pay so much worry and anxiety for it. You just like her at most, and don't value your feelings for her.

My suggestion is that she doesn't love you. If she loves you, she will never bear to see you suffer. You put it down now, although you will be sad for a while. After all, people have feelings. Let her remember your chic and let go, not your begging! Live your life smartly. Divert your attention, and this memory will soon pass. If you want to find her, you'd better stay with her for a long time, or even if you go to find her, you can temporarily save your feelings, but after separation, the distance will widen and the gap in your heart will be even greater. She wants to break up again, and you beg her to stay. . . . This is an infinite loop. It's better to be chic. Since you value this relationship so much, don't worry about finding the answer yet. Keep it in your heart. Maybe in the future. When all the conditions are ripe and you happen to still love her, then you can be together again. Although you will work harder, this is a realistic way out. You can continue to ask me if there is anything I can't get through after typing word by word. . . . .