I texted that someone had a crush on me.

If you find someone secretly loves you, will you expose it or pretend you don't know?

Many people have an impossible person in their hearts. In adolescence, they will secretly love the person who makes them move. Maybe it's because of his smile, maybe it's because a moment attracted you and you didn't dare to confess, so you silently guarded him and watched him.

So, if you find someone secretly loves you, do you choose to expose it or pretend not to know it? Many people don't know how to choose. In my opinion, if you find someone around you secretly loves you, you should choose to expose it for the following reasons.

0 1, let him find his own happiness as soon as possible.

When you find someone around you secretly loves you, if you think you don't like him at this time, then you should clearly tell him your attitude. Say you don't like him, you two can't be together. Let him give up on you early and don't give him hope, so that he can have a chance to find someone else.

Or meet another girl who makes him more excited in his later life or work, so as not to delay his time and let him stop wasting his time on himself. Because he knew it was impossible, fruitless and good for him. Doing so will enable him to find his own happiness as soon as possible, instead of spending his mind and time and energy on himself, an impossible person.

02, leaving no spare tire

There are many people who are having an affair with each other when they know that they like you. This is to find a spare tire for yourself. It is very wrong to give yourself a chance to break up or find the next one, but at this stage, you will not be with him, that is, you will be with this person and have no choice. It is unfair not only to this person, but also to the incumbent. You shouldn't leave a spare tire. You should tell him clearly your attitude. If you pretend you don't know, it's irresponsible indulgence.

03. Set your mind at ease.

When you know that the other person has a crush on you, there is no way to get along with you as before. Although the other person may not know that you already know about it, you know in your heart that he has a crush on you, so in the future, it will not be as natural as before. If we can still be friends, it's a good thing. If we really can't be friends, be good to him and ourselves. After all, it is irresponsible to let him continue to have a secret love, and it is also delaying him.

The best way to deal with the relationship between two people is not to hide it from each other. When you know that the other person likes you and you don't like him, you must refuse the other person and say what you really think. In this way, we will not be embarrassed to get along with each other in the future, and we can continue to be friends as before, and there is no burden in our hearts. If you happen to like him, it is really a very happy thing.