Send a message after breaking up. Whoever talks more will lose.

How can you win or lose in a relationship?

First of all, I think you have an emotional foundation, but your feelings are not deep enough to change the trajectory of life for each other, or your feelings have not yet turned into courage to face difficulties.

You are all right. As friends, we still care about each other, and neither of us has let go. It can be seen that both sides still care about each other. Boys want girls to have a good life, which is actually a kind of possessiveness, while girls want boys to belong to themselves wholeheartedly.

At present, it seems that the boy and his mother are interdependent, which makes him more responsible for the family he comes from.

Solve, the two sides have a good talk to see if they can balance their needs and put forward some solutions to see if they can still be together. Or you can fade away your feelings when you are young, but I estimate that the man should be stable soon, get married and have children at home with his mother. If there is no way to get married at the right age, don't contact again. Look ahead, there will be the right person to accompany you all your life.