A woman with high emotional intelligence says nothing in front of her husband and has a high status in her husband's family.

It is always said that husband and wife are the closest people in the world, so don't be shy, say whatever you want, and there is no need to hide it.

In fact, this idea is very wrong. Even couples need to pay attention to certain ways of getting along. Women with high emotional intelligence know that there are three things that can't be said in front of their husbands.

Don't speak ill of your mother-in-law

Getting along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a science, and many people don't have this knowledge, which is normal. After all, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law come from two completely different families. If it weren't for the man in the middle, they might never be relatives.

When two completely different women live under the same roof, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions. The mother-in-law is dissatisfied with her daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law is also dissatisfied with her mother-in-law.

But even so, everyone must remember that never speak ill of her mother-in-law in front of her husband. Even if her mother-in-law does something wrong, she is her husband's biological mother after all.

Don't talk about predecessors and the past.

Everyone has a past, which is normal. We also hope to meet the same lover, without comparison, without tasting love and parting, but it is difficult to allow such a thing to happen in reality.

Although many people aim at lasting love at first, they will eventually break up because of various things.

Everyone has a different attitude towards his predecessor. Some people will miss it silently, while others can forget it completely. No matter what kind you belong to, don't let go of your past feelings in front of your husband, otherwise it will only increase the contradiction between husband and wife.

Some men don't talk, but they care. On the surface, he didn't care, but in fact, he was furious.

Don't talk about her husband's shortcomings.

My best friend Xiaowen is a person who especially likes to expose her husband's shortcomings. Her husband's height is only 1.68 meters, which is relatively low among men. It can be seen that he himself has some concerns about this. After all, height is really important for men.

Xiaowen, an outspoken girl, often jokes about it. She often said that her husband was half-disabled, and sometimes even said such nonsense in front of everyone, and everyone could detect the embarrassed expression on her husband's face.

Everyone must remember, don't talk about her husband's shortcomings, because everyone has shortcomings, and this is a taboo part for everyone. Husband and wife also need to respect each other, and often picking up their husbands is short, which will only lead to worse and worse feelings between husband and wife.

Emotional conclusion:

Husband and wife are indeed the closest people in the world. In a sense, husband and wife should be honest with each other in order to enhance their feelings, but they can't get along without emotional intelligence.

Women with low EQ tend to put their foot in their mouth, do wrong things and even challenge their husbands' bottom line, which is tantamount to a kind of damage to the relationship between husband and wife, but women with high EQ are completely different.

They know how to get along with their husbands and what to say and what not to say. They will never cause psychological harm to their husbands or even conflicts between husband and wife during the chat.