Would it be annoying to chase a girl and send her messages every day?

There is a good saying on the Internet: If you take the initiative, we will have a story! In love, it is often the boys who take the initiative and the girls who are excited. Should boys always take the initiative? In fact, boys' initiative should not be completely proactive, but also selective and time-sharing. Too much initiative will be counterproductive, and just the right amount of initiative will achieve unexpected results. Many single male compatriots ask: Should I chat every day when pursuing a girl? Emotional boys tell us: Never maintain the frequency of chatting every day, as it can easily kill the budding feelings in the cradle. Why do you say that?

I used to think that I could find love by being nice to a woman. In the end, I said that I was a good person and was frustrated at every turn. Later, I learned a book about chasing girls and chatting, called "The Complete Works of Ouyang Shishuai". Now it's easy for me to chase girls. My girlfriend is the school beauty. I suggest you take a look. There are e-books online.

First, chatting every day makes it easy for the other party to discover your "little thoughts."

Girls are sensitive animals. Once someone behaves strangely towards her, she can easily guess what the other person is thinking. Not to mention that someone she didn't know well sent her messages every morning and evening. Good morning, good afternoon and good evening are not bad. She could quickly guess that the sender had impure motives for her. If the other person reminds her to wear more clothes when it's cold, and reminds her to eat enough and not to wrong herself when eating, she will be more sure of her guess, and then she will guess what kind of person the other person is.

Second, chatting every day can easily make the other party think you are too eager

When a girl discovers your "little thoughts", if you are still chasing her, send her a message , she will soon leave a bad impression in her mind. She will think that the other person is too impetuous, even a little frivolous, and has no sense of mystery at all, which makes girls feel boring. Maybe every sentence when chatting with you is because she thinks that since you are so frivolous to a person, then I will just deal with it casually!

Third, chatting every day can easily make the other person feel defensive about you

If you are chatting with the other person, and the other person doesn’t really want to reply and doesn’t have the vision to send a message, the other person will see through it completely. Because of your psychological activities, she may have a defensive mentality towards you, and then she may not even start to reply to you after a long time. A girl who has a slight crush on you will choose to deliberately avoid it, leaving you puzzled; a girl who is not interested in you will simply let you go because you are just an alternative answer to her boyfriend's multiple-choice question.

Fourth, chatting every day will easily make the other person dislike you

Fortunately, I went to the girl’s QQ or WeChat, and then started asking all the girls about their situation. The girl was quite willing to chat with you two days ago because she didn't know what kind of person the person on the other side of the screen was. Girls will be willing to lift the veil of mystery. When the details of both parties have been understood clearly, and the girl feels that she likes it but is not sure, the other party will keep sending messages asking her what she is doing. She may be busy, or she may be taking a break. It doesn't matter if you interrupt once or twice, but if she does it every day, she will feel irritated. After all, girls have bad tempers. In this case, it is difficult for you to ask a girl out for further intimate contact.