My boyfriend is busy at work and often ignores me. What should I do?

If it were me, I would find a chance to explain it to him instead of thinking hard here alone.

In my opinion, the most difficult thing for you is that you have only been together for half a year, so why did he ignore you? At the same time, you are worried that this is the end of the love period. What should I do if I stay together for a long time? Will it be more ignored?

But another contradiction in your heart is that your boyfriend seems to have no problem because he is busy with work. Even you think, as a girlfriend, if you argue with him because of this, it will be unreasonable. What's more, the boy has said that he wants you to understand him, and you can't say it.

In this situation where you want his love, but you can't find a suitable reason, your discomfort is actually doubled, or even doubled.

I had the same problem for a while, and I even wondered if I should break up. Because we were only together for four months at that time, but every day was like punching in.

For a long time, I felt that this love was meaningless and I really wanted to give up. But I also feel that it is a rare thing to meet someone who likes himself and likes himself. So I kept putting it off. But things have been kept in my heart for too long, and there will always be an outbreak one day.

One night, I called him. Because I wanted to ask him something, he didn't want to say it, he was busy with his own business, and then I said, I went to bed, and my tone was not very happy.

Later, he may have heard it, too, and then told me that it was three o'clock in the morning. I said a lot of worries and pains in my heart before. After that, I also clearly expressed my thoughts. I don't ask much. I just hope he can give me more time after work.

After that conversation, he didn't really give me more time. But I don't know why, compared with before, I feel much more down-to-earth. Probably because of that exchange, I know more about his inner feelings, so I think many things are acceptable.

So I suggest you don't just tell him that you want him to spend more time with you, but give reasons, such as why do you want him to spend more time with you so much? Is it because of insecurity? Or because of other factors.

Don't feel embarrassed. Many couples misunderstand each other more and more because they don't like to talk. I think if two people really like each other, it will be much better after everything is said. At least, your heart will be much more secure. So ~ let's talk about it ~