Reflections on important events in life

Reflections on major events in life (selected 10 articles)

After carefully watching a film and television work, what did you feel after watching it this time? You might as well sit down and write down your thoughts. In order to save you the headache of writing reviews, here is my review of major events in life. I hope it will be helpful to everyone.

Reflections on major events in life Part 1

"The man who planted stars" is the special title given to the funeral industry by this movie. "Every star in the sky is someone who has loved us." I have also sat in the mountains and looked up at every star. If you are indoctrinated too much by science, you will lose your sensibility. I always imagine the survival of stars in the universe, but never think that each star may be the person that someone cares about most.

On Yanjiang Road on a midsummer night, would Xiaowen and his third brother often look at the stars and miss their grandmother and father?

In my heart, Xiaowen is like a little Nezha, out-of-the-box and naughty, but he also takes the people who should be in his heart into his heart. I grew up with my grandmother, but one morning I woke up and my grandmother left in a hurry. Xiaowen, don’t be sad. When you fall asleep, grandma will turn into stars and fall into your dreams; Xiaowen, don’t be sad. If you are sad, just sit on the stone bench outside "Shanghai Heaven" and look at the stars in the sky. Listen to grandma's voice, grandma is beside you.

After losing his grandmother, Xiaowen also gained a warm-hearted father, right?

A short two hours covered the third brother’s transformation year. From the selfish third brother with no direction in life, he has become a good father who loves his daughter; from having objections to the funeral industry to now inheriting his father's business, he has become a qualified "star seeder". The third brother may not understand why his father pushed him into the pile of dead people. In fact, it is just like what is written in the lyrics - "As long as you really believe, you are the happiest person; as long as you really believe, you are the one who grows stars." Believe in this industry, believe in yourself, believe in every star in the sky, and death is not that terrible.

What moved me most was that Lao Mo turned into fireworks and disappeared on the Yangtze River. There was no cry in the hall, no white cloth in the hall, just his ashes in the most ordinary jar. Leave a letter home and let your son choose the most special and honorable way to leave. Third brother understands you. I wonder if you have seen it in heaven? In the sky where your second son died, your ashes were mixed with fireworks and became the most dazzling presence on Yanjiang Road that night. Maybe you have become a star, and after seeing what your son has done, you probably have to show off to other stars!

The concept conveyed by "Big Events in Life" is that "there are no big events in life except death." Just like what Lao Mo said at the end, "Life is like a book, you always have to turn to the last page. It's just that the punctuation marks are different, some people have periods, and some people have ellipses." There is nothing bigger than the stars in the universe, and there is nothing bigger than death in life. As long as you are willing to believe, as long as you are willing to invest in life, the punctuation mark of the book of life can also be the most beautiful star.

My home is at No. 73 Huaian Road, Yanjiang Road, Yuhua District. I am a person who grows stars, and you can be one too. Reflections on Life Events Chapter 2

I went to see the recently released movie "Life Events" over the weekend. Maybe it was because I was tired. Although I was moved to tears several times during the movie, I still felt that at that time Still feel like there's a fly in the ointment.

First of all, there are several plots in the play that are expected, such as the death of Mo’s father, the joining of Xiaowen’s mother, and the happy ending that everyone likes. , it feels a bit pity for this realistic and profound theme.

Just as Mu Xin said: Chinese people have a complex, let’s call it the “reunion complex.” If they are not reunited, they will not be separated, and they will begging for reunion, otherwise the audience will curse the author to death. The Greeks felt heavy and purified after watching the tragedy. After watching Happy Reunion, the Chinese people laughed and ate supper, forgetting everything for a moment.

"Life Events" chose a somewhat heavy and realistic topic. Death has always been a taboo and avoidable topic for Chinese people. The film selection is very good, and the overall production is above the standard, but I personally feel It's a bit of a pity.

I was lying in bed tonight and thought about the plot of the movie again, and suddenly realized another clue in the movie, it turned out that I was superficial.

At the beginning of the movie, Mo Sanmei, played by Zhu Yilong, gives the impression that she is a funeral director who has not been released from prison recently and has no feelings. Even if his neighbors joke with him, he should also seriously respond to the evildoers in the past. Even he and his old father were tit for tat and exchanged harsh words.

He also had no mercy at all towards "Xiao Wen", who had lost his grandma, whom he depended on for life. He had a heart of stone and frightened the child into panic every minute.

But for such a "evil person", when he receives a breakup text message from his girlfriend, he will instantly become confused. After discovering the truth, I would just cry silently in front of the photo.

When he saw that Xiaowen was not treated well at his uncle's house, he wanted to take responsibility without thinking.

Is he a bad guy or a good guy? , Zhu Yilong, who carries the halo of the protagonist, is of course a good guy. So what led to his seemingly contradictory and divisive behavior?

It was his childhood.

My father said that in the funeral industry, "those who are incompetent cannot do it, and those who are capable are looked down upon." Several generations of the Mo family have been running this funeral shop called "Shangtian". Mo Sanmei's childhood He spent his time in the crematorium. He started helping the dead get dressed at the age of five, but his strict father always beat and scolded him and never gave him a word of approval.

It was not until his father passed away that reconciliation was reached between father and son. He was like crazy, trying his best to fulfill his father's last wish.

After understanding this level, you also understand that the coldness, ruthlessness, willfulness, and freedom in Mo Sanmei are just his protective colors. He was just a kind kid who was afraid of getting hurt.

So when Xiaowen’s mother came to take her away, even though she was reluctant to leave her and uttered evil words, he still couldn’t help but feel soft-hearted.

That’s why he chased the car away in the rain.

That’s why he stupidly asked a child, “You won’t forget me, will you?”

What is a major event in life?

Is it birth, old age, illness and death? Or is it the flowers and candles in the bridal chamber or the inscription on the gold medal list?

This is the question the film leaves us to think about.

There is a saying that our whole life is actually trying to make up for the harm we suffered when we were children.

Thank you for keeping me warm. Reflections on major events in life Part 3

Some people say that Chinese people are taboo about talking about death, but I don’t think so. Chinese people just don't talk about death easily. It's not that they are taboo about death, but they respect life more. I don’t know much about the distant history, but our grandparents still have memories of wars and famines. Many people at that time did not die happily, and more likely they were forced or killed. Therefore, they will think that life is hard-earned, and if they do not look forward actively, they will waste their lives. Talking about death is disrespectful to life.

The film "Life Events" tells the story of funeral master Mo Sanmei (played by Zhu Yilong) who met the orphan Wu Xiaowen (played by Yang Enyou) during a funeral shortly after his release from prison. The appearance of Wen unexpectedly changed his attitude towards career and life.

The protagonist of the story, "Third Brother", whose nickname is "Mo Sanmei" (played by Zhu Yilong), is a prisoner who has been released from prison. His father and eldest sister call him Sanmei.

His father doesn’t like him and thinks he doesn’t treat “Heaven on Earth” well. His neighbor thinks it’s unlucky for him to be in constant contact with dead people. His girlfriend even cuckolded him... He should also I think I'm too weak.

So he gave me the feeling of "insecurity, worthlessness, and lack of confidence", and there was also some emptiness, as if he didn't know why he was alive. But there are some who refuse to admit defeat and usually pretend to be fierce, like an immature little boy.

Just like his name, although people call him "Third Brother" on the outside, in fact he is still "Mo Sanmei" on the inside. He needs his father's praise, the support of his friends, and someone who is worthy of him. People who work hard.

After meeting Xiaowen, the third brother’s eyes slowly began to light up, and he also respected funerals even more.

Two clips in the movie that moved me:

The first one is Xiaowen drawing on the little girl’s urn.

For the parents of little girls, the stars on the urn can bring some warmth to their daughters.

It is very difficult to accept that their baby is gone in a short period of time. They complain that they usually only focus on work and do not spend time with their daughters. This may also be a wake-up call for parents who are currently busy with work. It makes me feel that death is not the most painful thing, the most painful thing is the living person who cannot let go.

The second one is the third brother sorting out Lao Liu’s remains.

Lao Liu was Third Brother’s rival in love, but he couldn’t stand the pain of his former lover, and thanks to Xiao Wen giving him the courage, he agreed to ask the old man for help. After doing this, he saw that the family members got some comfort. From here on, the third brother truly grew up.

This story reminds me of a story in a neighboring village when I was a child. A little girl died because she was run over by a car. At that time, I heard from the villagers that the girl couldn’t even see what she looked like. Her mother asked for help. They made her look beautiful with a doll before burying her. When she was a child, she only thought that her mother loved her so much. Now that she thinks about it, this matter means more to the living.

By the way, what touches me the most is the old man’s words:

“Life is like a book, everyone will turn to the last page. Except for death, there is no life. event".

Finally

As long as you are still alive, those are small things and can be solved. Reflections on Major Events in Life Chapter 4

"The Major Events in Life" was really well shot. When I was twenty, I especially liked watching macro-level stories about heroes, enemies, and enemies. When I was thirty, I had After some life experiences, I prefer to read small stories about small people, stories with seemingly ordinary details and ordinary corners.

The third brother is a person who cultivates stars. This is a warm movie with a compact plot and distinctive characters. The lines are also very concise and poignant. Every line exists to enrich the emotion of the play.

What moved me the most was my grandma’s reminder on WeChat. Because I can no longer hear it, it means she is leaving forever. Xiaowen also cried "Third brother, third brother, daddy, daddy" and really burst into tears. The child's emotions have exploded. She is no longer a child without a father and a mother. There is someone in the world who cares about her. .

People are born alone. They come and go alone. Birth and marriage are comedy, and the end of life after death is tragedy. Therefore, a wedding company was placed next to heaven, including the wedding scene inside. They are all for dramatic conflicts and expressing the joys and sorrows of life. In fact, happiness is sadness, there is life and there is death, there is gathering and separation, and there is loss when there is gain and loss of feelings, but living itself is the meaning of life, and there is no big thing other than life and death.

This story revolves around the "father-daughter" relationship as the main narrative line. On one side is an orphan without a father or a mother. The only supporter is the grandmother who has passed away. The two shots at the beginning of the film depict the grandmother's many difficulties. The Nezha-like characters of Bing and Xiaowen are respectively a table of medicines and Nezha's New Year pictures on the wall.

On the other side is a middle-aged good-for-nothing who went to jail for love and was raped after his release. He had conflicts between father and son, between men and women, and even with his neighbors. It seemed that life could not get any worse, but in the end he failed. He is a kind-hearted person who is "different from what he looks like". How can such a drama leave people unmoved? In order to adopt an unrelated child, he screwed up his so-called career, and for the sake of his old love, he took action to sort out the remains of his love rival. The hardness on the surface and the softness on the inside touch the deepest heart of every audience.

Everyone has one characteristic, which is kindness and compassion. This movie is very healing and reminds me of several similar movies, "The Gift of Room No. 7", "Heidi and..." "Grandpa", "Little Lolita's Monkey God Uncle", there is true love in the world, and the world is worth it! Reflections on major events in life Part 5

The story of the movie unfolds in the funeral industry, which naturally made me think - maybe funerals or how to leave with dignity are major events in life. But as shown at the beginning of the movie, death is a topic that everyone avoids but must eventually face. Just like the funeral shop north of the hospital, it just looks deserted.

The movie mainly tells the story of a little girl who cannot accept the death of her grandmother and accidentally follows the protagonist in funeral work and finally accepts the fact and takes care of each other. It sounds a bit boring, but as the plot progressed, I felt what the movie conveyed to me that I had never thought of - although death should be faced seriously, it may really be nothing more than that.

For example, a funeral shop is placed in a small and busy alley, with a wedding shop and a barber shop on both sides. Getting along well makes me feel that it is no longer an eyesore; although funerals run through the entire movie, and the sad emotions cannot be escaped, I can also feel the form of each funeral and the heaviness it brings. There are some other events, although some are dramatic, such as the mutual redemption between the two protagonists, the departure of his girlfriend, the marriage of a friend, etc.

All of this made me slowly feel that compared to the death we will face in the future, perhaps our present moment is the real major event in life - instead of worrying about the future, it is better to live well, take care of ourselves, and be responsible for ourselves .

Recalling some of the movies I have watched that discuss death, such as The Encourage, Coco, Birds of the Phoenix, etc. Although there are some differences between this film and them, the background of the story makes me even more excited. Familiar, and now I realize that what it expresses seems to be to arouse people's love for life - the embalmer tells stories about this profession, allowing people to explore the value of work, and any job is worthy of respect and seriousness. Treat it the same way, and life should be the same; Coco talks about a person's social death, that is, you are truly dead when no one remembers you in reality. It also tells us that we should live a good life and be worthy of being remembered by others.

After the movie ended, I was thinking, what is the major event in my life? Maybe it’s different at different stages of life. So what do I care about now? Reflections on the Great Events in Life Part 6

Last night while I was sitting downstairs smoking, I suddenly remembered a recent movie that my friend recommended to me called "The Great Events in Life". After thinking about it, I had never been to a movie theater since October 16 last year, so I happily bought a ticket and decided to go see it tonight.

The film is called "Life Events" and is mentioned many times throughout the narrative. The director may want to express an open-minded attitude towards life through the characters' mouths, that is, everything except death is clouds and smoke. This has the same feeling as "Life and death are also important" in "The Preface to the Lanting Collection", except that one only emphasizes the end, while the other also emphasizes the beginning.

In addition, I think the two parts that are more outstanding are the two scenes related to blood and emotions. So I jokingly said that this movie should not be called "Life Events" but should be called "Love, Bloodline, and The Undertaker". Love does not need to be explained. This movie contains the love of parents for their children, and the love of children for their parents. I will explain the blood relationship in the following text. The mourner is the profession of the male protagonist.

Why is it related to blood relationship? I think the issue of blood is vaguely addressed in the movie. At the end of the film, Xiaowen's biological mother came to look for Xiaowen, and the third sister sent Xiaowen back. Here I thought of a question, which of these two kinds of kindness is more important, life or nourishment. Why should the child be given away when the biological mother comes to search? Isn't the child's opinion worth asking? Or can a person who has never fulfilled her parenting responsibilities for a day be a qualified mother?

Of course, this issue is not discussed in depth in the film. Instead, at the end, Xiaowen’s biological mother joins the Sanmei team to resolve the conflict between birth and care. But this does not stop me from exploring this issue, which is which is more important, biological parents or emotional parents.

Personally, I tend to raise more than I can live.

In fact, the film also has many descriptions of blood relationships. For example, the male protagonist and his father had such a quarrel. In the end, because of Xiaowen's leadership and the fact that the two people had a reproductive relationship, the two were able to get back together, and the father finally began to agree with the male protagonist. Of course, I think this section was handled quite well, including the male protagonist’s father’s promise that he would be willing to help as long as Xiao Wen calls him “Grandpa”. This can all reflect the importance that the elderly attach to blood and inheritance.

Back to the title of the film, "Life Events". At the beginning of the film, the death of Xiaowen's grandmother and the fact that Xiaowen's cousin was going to take the exam in Beijing were used as a conflict point. The death of an old man is a big deal, and going to Beijing to take the exam is also a big deal. The focus of the conflict is Xiaowen's uncle. Should he stay at home with his mother's body, or go to Beijing to accompany his children in their exams? Of course, the final choice is to accompany the child to take the exam. This seems to show that in our hearts, the feelings for the next generation are always stronger than those for the previous generation.

I wrote a lot in this long and verbose way, as if I wanted to use an analytical knife to dissect the movie. But I think that movies should be watched with heart and feel the roar of emotions. This kind of analysis is just a reflection after looking at it. When I was in the theater, I also immersed myself in the world of the characters, feeling their joys and sorrows, and their joys and sorrows.

In the overall narrative process of the movie, there are two business deals received by the male protagonist, both of which can actually be discussed. One is that a child in the family passed away due to heart failure, and the parents were always busy with their careers and did not spend much time with the child before he was admitted to the ward. In the end, they regretted it. The other is that because the old man received the demolition money, his family has been in trouble, so he decided to spend all the demolition money and organize a living funeral for himself. Both display some of the contradictions of the moment. Also, after adopting Xiao Wen, the kindergarten teacher felt that the parents did not care about their children’s education, and said that no matter how busy they were, they should come over and spend time with their children.

I won’t expand on the first two short stories, as they are still very straightforward, but I think the last one, who accompanies the child, should be expanded on. The main reason is that I have been a volunteer in a kindergarten where there are many children of migrant workers.

We certainly admit that parents can play a very large or even decisive role in the growth of their children. But we must realize that parents do not necessarily have the ability, experience, or time to accompany their children. This is really a very complicated contradiction. Everyone hopes to grow up with their children, but sometimes life is really cruel. Just like left-behind children, if they go out to work, the children will not be accompanied, and if they do not go out to work, the children's living conditions will not be guaranteed. These problems cannot be solved by talking about them.

That’s probably it. The movie is a good movie and worth watching. All thoughts are inspired by this movie. While watching the movie, you should also seek the resonance of the movie. This is how you respect it. Reflections on major events in life Part 7

Every time I encounter a good movie, I feel honored. A movie, in fact, is a book that is expressed in form and sound. It uses drama to interpret and supplement life. "Life Events" is a book that I will never tire of.

I thought it was tragic, but it is not. Xiaowen’s life condenses the most tragic character in the market, Mo Sanmei’s hazy life. Because of Xiaowen, there is more light. One is that his childhood is miserable, One of them had an incomplete childhood, and they probably kept each other warm.

Also, is it true that what adults are pursuing throughout their lives is to make up for their incomplete childhood? Sanmei's love for Xiaowen is actually to make up for the lack of love in childhood. The love of the previous generation that was always beaten and scolded, and never praised, even if it is understood in life as an adult, it will never be let go, because childhood can never come back.

Chinese people have always valued mourning and honor after death. Sanmei gradually realized that what he did could bring comfort to the relatives of the deceased, and gradually became a real star. people.

No one can predict what will happen after their death, but without exception, they all want their relatives who remain in this world not to be too sad or sad. The procession of stars walked through the market, sending stars to the sky one by one, and also sent away the old father who could not express his love.

The camera is always locked in the narrow alley, messy and conflicting environment, as if it is the scene of our childhood life.

However, it is not sad, nor does it pretend to be sad. Probably because it is getting older, it has gradually lost a lot of emotions. When it comes to sadness, it is actually not very sad, and when it comes to happiness, it actually does not have much joy. , so its warmth makes me feel like I can smile knowingly, and then sing about life.

A pink urn filled with stars, a funeral that flies into the sky and is accompanied by fireworks. When you miss your loved ones, just look up at the stars. Every star in the sky is a person who loved us. , may my thoughts turn into stars to accompany us as we move forward with warmth.

After watching the movie, I left the theater and bought a big peach from a passing fruit shop. Then, like them, I took a big bite. It was crunchy, sweet, and the sound was so good. . Thoughts after watching "Life Events" Part 8

I watched the movie "Life Events" this morning and I had some feelings. Especially at the beginning, when I saw Xiao Wen unable to call his grandmother, I suddenly felt that this was a horror movie.

From the perspective of a little girl, it was a terrible thing that her dearest grandmother couldn't be woken up, was carried away, and then sent to be burned.

Look at the third brother - Mo Sanmei. The third brother, who works in the funeral industry and whose life is not easy, met Xiao Nezha, Xiaowen, when he was dealing with the funeral of Xiaowen's grandmother. The two happy enemies became a family. Then the third brother's father passed away, and Xiaowen's The mother took Xiaowen away. After experiencing life and death, the third brother repented and began to love his job. He raised the found Xiaowen and started a new life.

The story is not complicated, just touching enough. Like Xiao Wen and Third Brother, they were not acquainted before they got into each other, but after getting along, they became dependent on each other; like the old man and Third Brother, on the surface they disliked each other, but in the end they still had a relationship of fatherly kindness and son filial piety. The relationship between people can be good or bad at the beginning, but after getting along for a long time, true feelings will emerge.

There are also the major events in life. In the past, I saw that "there is no big thing in life except life and death", but in the movie, life is excluded and it becomes "In life, there is no big thing except death." What are the major events in life? Is it the continuation and death represented by the wedding shop and the funeral parlor in the movie, or is it the joys and sorrows? I'm afraid it's neither. The big things in life are still things that are happening right now, big or small, good or bad. The past has passed, and the future has not happened yet. It is important to deal with the present matters well.

It’s just that it’s easy to talk about death, but it’s still too difficult to talk about death. When I was a child, I had never been to the old people who loved me until they passed away; in the future, I hope that my living relatives will live for a long time. I am most afraid of the hospital and least want to see the time of separation. Reflections on Major Events in Life Chapter 9

"Major Events in Life" uses a relaxed way to tell a story of mutual warmth and mutual healing. When it comes to funerals, we tend to avoid talking about it and keep it secret, since the deceased is already gone. But those who have experienced it know that in this last journey, we often say goodbye to them as if they were still alive, and finally express our reluctance.

The story revolves around the mortician Mo Sanmei, but it is not heavy. They also have the same daily life as us, and they are even like neighbors and friends living around us. The appearance of Xiaowen broke Mo Sanmei's somewhat decadent but uneventful life.

From their interactions together, Xiaowen’s innocence and dependence on his third brother gave him a sense of responsibility, something to care about, and someone to care about before he even realized it. . Xiaowen no longer fears the days without his grandmother, and has a family since then.

Although the third brother is unlucky, he is lucky, because Father Mo actually really loves him, Xiaowen trusts him immensely, and his friends support him. Xiaowen was also lucky because he met his kind-hearted third brother.

The story does not have too many surprises and twists, but it is warm enough. As Father Mo said, there is nothing important in life except death. Cherish the people around you. It's not perfect, but this is life. The director and screenwriter carefully told us a story about people who seem to be living around us. Reflections on major life events Chapter 10

The movie opens with Xiao Wen’s grandmother passing away peacefully in her sleep. This is a major life event in Xiao Wen’s world, and the professional helper appears with it. Mo Sanmei, the undertaker and his entourage, are taking care of the funeral. The young Xiaowen didn't understand that her grandmother had passed away and left her, but she stubbornly believed that whoever touched her last would be the one to ask for her, so she aggressively chased Mo Sanmei all the way to ask for her. During the process of Xiaowen looking for Mo Sanmei to ask for her grandmother, she realized that Xiaowen was actually an obedient, sensible and warm-hearted child. She remembered everything her grandmother said to her. When she missed her grandmother, she would listen to the phone recordings on her phone watch. She always keeps the little tiger stuffed toy "Doujiao" that her grandmother made for her, as well as her Nezha hairstyle and red tassel gun. Slowly, Xiaowen also learned that grandma was burned into smoke and disappeared into the sky, turning into a star and never coming back.

The "Heaven" where the protagonist Mo Sanmei lives is in charge of people's death and funeral, that is, posthumous matters. At first, he was extremely impatient when his father asked him to do funeral-related things, but as the plot progressed, the third brother also saw new things in the dead situation. The story begins with the death of the grandmother, followed by a ten-year-old girl who fell ill and died. There is also a farce in the middle of helping a living person hold a funeral. Later, Mo Sanmei’s ex-girlfriend’s husband, Ah Liu, died in a car accident, followed immediately by the death of Mo Sanmei’s father. , and finally there was a scene of Mo Sanmei and his group helping others organize funerals. Every funeral event that Mo Sanmei and the others organized was to make the deceased dignified, to keep the living warm, and to properly handle the event.

There are many storylines interspersed in it, but they are all twists and turns. All the unsatisfactory events in life are dealt with in one stroke, and the final ending is considered to be happy for everyone. Xiaowen and Mo Sanmei become a family without blood. .

Death is an unavoidable topic for everyone. Whether you avoid it or face it head-on, it is difficult to avoid it. Death itself is cold, but with warm undertakers like Mo Sanmei, death does not seem to be a completely scary thing.

The end of the film echoes the beginning. Mo Sanmei’s father passed away peacefully after leaving a will. Mo Sanmei finally understood how to fulfill his father's wish. A big firework sent his father's ashes to the sky. The gorgeous fireworks lit up the night sky, like stars all over the sky twinkling. Those who plant stars go to heaven and become stars.

You and I are both barefoot in the next life, why should we be afraid of the bumpy road in this life? My eyes are full of vicissitudes of life, and even though I think about my great pride, I am also covered in bruises. Don't envy other people's arrogance, don't envy butterflies and mandarin ducks, see through the heat and coldness of the world, don't want to come again, there is no time to come, only life and death, and people have a good time. Some people accompany you for a journey but can't accompany you for a lifetime. Life is a book, there is always something When turning to the last page, some people put a period and some people put an ellipsis. What is the important thing in life? There is no big deal except life and death. There is no standard answer in life. Cherishing the present is always the best solution. ;