If you like a man, should you send him a message? Or are you just waiting?

It takes skill to pursue the person you like, and waiting is the most hopeless way. If you are afraid that the other person will think that you will not cherish it on your own initiative, then you must find ways to make the other person take the initiative to like you, enter his sight, attract his eyes, leave him a good opportunity to chase you, and let him leave you slowly and know your good through constant contact, and so on. You need to practice hard by yourself. There's an easier way. Let a third person help you test his knowledge and feelings about you through a third person you are all familiar with, or let the third person pretend to introduce you casually. Happiness depends on oneself, and it is difficult to wait.