Should girls look at their boyfriends' mobile phones?

Chipa said that there was an interesting debate at that time: should I look at my partner's mobile phone?

I found that most girls chose should without hesitation, while all boys stood on the opposite side.

The reason is that most boys don't want to show their mobile phones to each other. The excuse is privacy.

Privacy is a particularly important thing in modern society. You can't touch my things, go through my wallet, look at my mobile phone or check my WeChat chat, because each of us has privacy.

Well, yes, everyone has a little secret. I don't want others to know, even my closest lover.

However, privacy will be infinitely magnified. Anything, as long as I don't want to, in my opinion, is my privacy, my secret, you can't touch it.

Well, your so-called privacy, both couples are a little uncomfortable.

Because I love you, I don't want you to keep any secrets from me. This is a common idea of girls.

Although I love you, I still want to keep some of my secrets, which is the idea of ordinary boys.

The frequency of men and women is not on the same line.

Boys complain that girls haggle over every ounce, don't give themselves a little privacy, but forget what she really wants, but it is such a sense of security. If you don't tell her, or you can't say it, she really wants to get to know you through your mobile phone, people around you, or your wallet.

And boys forget a very important point. The real privacy you don't want to be known is not your mobile phone, wallet, or anything you can see casually. You can keep what you want, but only you know.

In other words, you don't want to be seen because you really have a guilty secret in your heart.

2

My friend Niu Niu is pursued by a handsome boy. That boy, after chasing for two months, caught Niu Niu.

That boy is very handsome, walking on the road is a particularly eye-catching man, smiling with dimples, with a cute and handsome big boy.

Niu Niu likes him very much. The more she gets along with him, the more she likes him. Even in the beginning, Niu Niu was the one who was chased.

But, no way, true love.

Niu Niu said to me, "Sometimes he smiles at himself, even if he is angry at first, but he can't help but soften up when he smiles."

Many girls are like this, obviously not the first to be tempted, but the more they get along with each other, the more they sink.

Why are women often at a disadvantage in love? Because they love each other deeply. Girls are naturally easily moved by love. Compared with the rationality of boys, she respects the call of sensibility more.

Niu Niu's boyfriend likes to rummage through her mobile phone, brush her circle of friends and read her class schedule. Actually, Niu Niu didn't like it at first. After all, a mobile phone is such a personal thing.

However, her boyfriend told her, "I love you and want to know you." Niu Niu showed it to him. In fact, there is nothing, just some photos in the album at most.

However, my boyfriend has never shown Niu Niu the mobile phone. Every time I laugh and play, Niu Niu occasionally frowns and says, "Show me your mobile phone."

"My mobile phone looks good, nothing, just WeChat Weibo and basic applications, nothing to look at."

Many things are traceable, but they are naive and willing to be cheated and don't believe it.

Niu Niu didn't watch it on the spot, and then one day when two people were studying by themselves, Niu Niu peeked while the boys were not there.

I saw the circle of friends sent by my boyfriend and clicked on the photos sent by two people, but they were blocked by some people. Two small blackheads are particularly eye-catching. Niu Niu comforted herself, perhaps because he was shy, so he had to shield his parents.

It's a pity that I turned to the message below. Apart from my own comments and comments, there is also a very intimate interaction.

Niu Niu couldn't help nodding the girl's head, looking through their chat records, and then saw the latest one: "Good night, baby."

The sky suddenly collapsed.

At this moment, Niu Niu knew it was all over.

Two people, broke up.

"He came back and said a lot of excuses, saying that he was just a girl, just an ordinary friend, just chatting casually, but I felt so fake when I saw his eyes, obviously so handsome, how could he be so playboy and so hurtful?"

Ma Weiwei said in that issue of Seven Parnassus: Since you and I love each other, there is no boundary from now on, I am willing to give up all rights for you, and please give up all rights for me.

Since I dare to show you my mobile phone honestly, I hope you can honestly accept my inspection from time to time. Don't use privacy as an excuse. Sometimes, lovers really don't have that much privacy, but some are just skeletons in the closet.

three

I really met such a good boy, my good friend. Call him Dong.

There is a number in Adong's mobile phone, and the nickname will change from time to time, sometimes it is called Queen, and sometimes it is called Your Highness.

There is only one photo in Dong's wallet, your highness.

There are no secrets in Dong's mobile phone. The head is his girlfriend, and the background is his girlfriend.

Adong's all property account information, his girlfriend knows, every double eleventh, Adong doesn't even have to send gifts, because on that day, there will always be timely SMS consumption reminders.

Adong will never chat with other girls after ten o'clock in the evening. Even if the relationship is good, he will not chat unless there is something urgent that day, so there is no way.

Adong always takes his girlfriend with him when he goes out for group activities, so we all know his princess.

Seriously, many people say that Adong is a coward and Adong is not a man.

Adong, on the other hand, worked hard in his career and made great achievements. He planned to buy a house and start a family with his girlfriend.

I found that many men made a mistake, that is, he felt that he must be overbearing in front of women.

We forget that the man we need is a man who should be timid in front of us and a man in front of outsiders. It's a pity that many people have reversed their positions, and they will be confiscated when they are timid, and there will be no men when they are men. So, let's say that women nowadays ...

What's wrong with women now? She just wants to tell everyone that she has a boyfriend, and similarly, you have a husband. Don't be ridiculous.

I once asked Adong, "Adong, do you think this is not free?" Your girlfriend knows everything. "

What Adong told me is that since two people are together, mobile phones, bank accounts or other private things, the other half should know that there are some things that you must share with the people you love. This is not just your privacy, this is a promise. Because, you are a man, you should have a sense of responsibility and reassure your woman.

four

My father and mother have lived together for more than twenty years. Wechat has been popular in recent years, and my parents started playing it after they met. Wechat is a wonderful thing. Whether it is good or bad, it quickly brings us closer, but it also wonderfully brings you closer to strangers.

Even now, my mother holds my dad's mobile phone from time to time to see who my dad has talked to and who my dad has praised.

They have been together for more than 20 years and everything has gone through ups and downs. According to the truth, my mother knows my dad well enough and can rest assured for my dad.

But, ah, I still can't help but want to double it.

But it is because, even if I know you well enough and feel at ease enough, I am not at ease with others.

Of course, my dad is not satisfied: what's so good about my mobile phone, do you still watch it?

My mother just took my mobile phone to my father: Look at mine.

My father stopped talking, just picked up my mother's mobile phone and brushed it, then put it aside.

People who love each other are always like this, regardless of men and women, no matter how long they are together, they are still not at ease when they are upset. They must always check to verify their mistakes, and then they can relax and do what they should do.

Once my father came home late, my mother kept calling like an inspector, and when my father came back, he asked him carefully.

This look is really annoying.

My parents also quarreled about it, but within a few days, they soon recovered.

It's probably true as Cai Kangyong said: When two people are together for a long time, it's easy to get bored, because the so-called respect, the so-called trust, and finally the sense of distance can't be overcome.

It's true.

Life needs waves, quarrels, trivial matters, your interrogation, my resistance to you, and we need to spend those confrontations together, only to find that this interfered life is an important source to maintain our intimate life.

Because, I interfere with you, but because I care.

five

I clearly understand that we all have some secrets.

Who has no secrets?

However, from the moment we chose each other, can you tell me all the secrets you chose to keep from others?

I will also come out of the same tray.

Of course, I know, maybe you can't be so honest. You can't tell anyone a little privacy, and I understand.

However, please let me know that your privacy is with me and there is no trace. This is your corner, and no one will bother you except you.

You know, the secret that only lovers know is the sweetness that belongs to us.

I am willing, willing, willing.

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