"Grandpa, your eldest son is divorced, and your youngest son is divorced. Are you satisfied? " what do you think?

The influence of family background is very important. Once there is domestic violence, there will be countless times, so before you get married, you should look at the mode of getting along with your in-laws, so that your future marriage may be happier.

First, family background has a great influence on children's marriage. Look at the relative pattern of in-laws before marriage. Before getting married, Xiaoxian found that her father-in-law had the habit of domestic violence, but her mother-in-law seemed to be used to it, and her boyfriend hesitated because of domestic violence. After all, being born in a family has a great influence on her children, but then Xiaoxian's boyfriend Daley repeatedly promised that she would not be like her father.

So Xiaoxian also agreed to get married. After marriage, my father-in-law really often instilled in her husband the idea that men should be masters of their own affairs, and also encouraged his son to beat his wife, but Xiaoxian's husband really kept his promise and never beat Xiaoxian, which also reassured Xiaoxian.

Later, Xiaoxian came back by a male colleague's car because of the bad weather, and her father-in-law insisted that her daughter-in-law was cheating. This time, Xiaoxian's husband slapped Xiaoxian directly, and Xiaoxian also resolutely proposed a divorce.

Being born in a family also has a great influence on children. Although Xiaoxian's husband swore before that he would not beat his wife, his father is a habitual wife-beater. With the encouragement of his father-in-law, Xiaoxian's husband will naturally abuse Xiaoxian.

Second, there is only one domestic violence, countless times, and you should dare to divorce after being domestic violence. Domestic violence is not like anything else wrong. If you know it, you can correct it. On the contrary, there are countless things behind the first time. Obviously, Xiaoxian's husband's eldest brother divorced because of domestic violence, and as a result, no one dared to marry him. If Xiaoxian doesn't divorce this time, Xiaoxian's husband will agree with his father-in-law more and more, but there will be more frequent domestic violence.

Therefore, when you are abused for the first time, you should bravely protect yourself, bravely file for divorce, and don't let yourself suffer numerous domestic violence, because once a man starts domestic violence, it means that he can't control himself, so women still have to refuse at this time.

You can't be cheated by your husband in a few words. There is absolutely zero tolerance for domestic violence, otherwise you will continue to live an unhappy marriage life in the future. My father is a man who likes domestic violence. I told my mother about the divorce, and she didn't want to. Later, my parents got a cerebral infarction before they stopped domestic violence. Isn't it terrible?

Don't think that you will be the salvation of the other party. It's useless, because children from families who like domestic violence must have latent factors of domestic violence. Once it breaks out, the consequences are unimaginable, so other things can be tolerated, but domestic violence is absolutely intolerable.

Therefore, when a woman marries, she must look at what kind of family she comes from, because the influence of family background may affect your husband's life, and once your husband has a domestic violence for the first time, there will be countless times in the future, so domestic violence is absolutely intolerable.