I want to send a message to the woman whose husband is having an affair. What should I say to her?

Agree with the view that you are so heavy upstairs! ! ! ~

Don't go to that woman, any negotiation with her won't have the result you want! ~ If she couldn't argue with you, you wouldn't have today's troubles at all! ! ! ~ your condemnation of her will only tilt your husband's emotional balance towards her, which is tantamount to pushing him further and further! ! ~

The most important thing now is to think calmly between your husbands about what caused you to become like this. Is there not enough communication? Not caring enough? Feelings are weak? Or did he have a new desire that you ignored or couldn't satisfy? Find out the reason, understand with reason and interest, and move with tenderness and affection, so as to keep her husband's heart. If you can keep his heart, is she worth your trouble? ! ~

In fact, this is really a war to defend marriage, but your opponent is her you don't have to entangle with. All you have to do is keep your husband and rely on him to strengthen your strength! ~