How to understand this short message sent by a blind date in a circle of friends?

This shows that this person still knows his own situation, and now it's your turn to make your own choice. On the bright side, this person is quite reliable and wants to be good to the other half. On the downside, this person is very scheming. You can make your own choices. If you choose him, then you are willing to suffer. I can tell you my situation in advance. Haha, but I still want to trust a person's good advice.