New succession, how to form an alliance with parents?

As teachers, we often have to take over halfway. How to get started quickly and win the trust of parents and students is a problem worth studying. Especially young teachers, are easily questioned by their parents. As a young white, we should have confidence. Zhuge Liang had no work experience before he came out of the mountain. Young teachers should be clear about their own advantages, such as being able to devote themselves to their work, having no family burden, being energetic, accepting new things quickly and getting along with students more easily. Only when young teachers are clear about their own advantages can they better establish their own educational self-confidence. Specific to the work, generally also need the blessing of skills.

First, improve the classroom and win the hearts of children.

Classroom is the main position of teaching. I remember when Mr. Rafe, who created the miracle of Room 56, came to China to communicate, our teacher China once asked him what to do if students make trouble in class. Teacher Rafe's answer is that we should make children feel sad and sorry not to participate in the classroom. It is the teacher who wants to make our classroom full of charm and firmly grasp the students' hearts. Students like your classroom, you and your subjects, and they will naturally win the trust of their parents.

To improve the quality of classroom teaching, young colleagues, we need to start from the following points.

1, prepare lessons carefully

? Preparing lessons is the first step in a good class. On the basis of reading teachers' books repeatedly, teachers should think about what is the hot spot in society, schools and classrooms at present. Can it be used as a scene and as an introduction to your own classroom teaching? These "hot spots" live around students and are part of their cognitive structure. We link these hot spots with the teaching content, which can easily attract students' attention. For example, one of our young teachers once taught in a class and implanted the social hotspot "Xinjiang Cotton" into teaching, which formed a bright spot. Paying attention to what is happening around you and integrating into the classroom is not part of preparing students?

If you want to improve your teaching design, you can also refer to excellent lesson examples in many ways. In the era of internet plus, resources were really rich and convenient. For example, the national learning cloud platform for primary and secondary schools of the Ministry of Education contains many classes taught by teachers from Tsinghua and Haidian, which are of high quality and free of charge. If you want to read the classroom records and learn the skills of classroom management, you can watch one teacher per class. We might as well learn from others and accumulate our own teaching style.

2. Effectively organize classroom teaching.

In classroom organization, we should understand the laws of students' physical and mental development, especially the laws of students' attention development. Experiments show that children aged 7~ 10 can concentrate for about 20 minutes, children aged/kloc-0 ~ 12 can concentrate for about 25 minutes, and children aged12 can concentrate for about 30 minutes. We should fully respect the law of students' physical and mental development, organize classes reasonably, and combine static with dynamic. After completing a teaching task, you can add some interactive games, such as rhythm practice before class, cutting fruit, squatting radish, telling a short story, and more interesting games can be searched in Little Red Book. The game is actually unprepared, and the interaction between students is also a means to adjust the classroom.

3. Let students succeed

A class really makes students love it, and the most important thing is to let students get the joy of success in class. When designing problems, we should design them at different levels to ensure that students can reach out and pick peaches. Be good at discovering students' advantages and affirming them in time, especially when students answer wrong questions.

Second, adhere to positive discipline and create a class atmosphere.

1. Class rules

Class rules are the cornerstone of a good class spirit. According to the management system of the school, establish rules with students and form documents to be read in class. If a student violates the rules, the first thing to do is to let him learn the class rules. Special circumstances should be considered when making class rules.

2. Training class cadres

The monitor is the right-hand man of the class teacher, and he should arrange his post according to the students' personality characteristics. One person and one post is of course the best. Generally speaking, two students can be placed in the same post and have two personalities, one is dynamic and the other is static. Dynamic and static can adjust, complement and gain from each other. The elected class cadres need long-term training. For example, it is necessary to cultivate the service consciousness of class cadres before taking up their posts, and ask them not to reprimand their classmates loudly, but to remind them quietly in their ears. As a monitor, you should take the lead; Praise your classmates more and leave fewer names. Knock on the door before you are in place to make the work easier. After taking up the post, we should still adhere to the training of class cadres. Every week or once in a while, class cadres should be called for a meeting. The meeting can give advice to the team leader on the problems found by the class teacher, or it can be an exchange of experience and confusion between the team leaders.

? In order to make class cadres serve the class better, it is necessary to have a set of incentive mechanism for class cadres. We can use the master of class optimization to set up the growth class of class cadres, and evaluate the work of class cadres from the aspects of responsibility, attitude, method and ability, so as to promote the growth of class cadres. When the cadres on duty grow up and can be independent, it is the time when the beautiful era of the class teacher opens.

3. Quantitative evaluation of daily behavior

After the establishment of class management mechanism, it is necessary to manage students' daily behavior. The quantitative assessment management of class daily behavior can be carried out by class optimization masters, which can be more convenient for statistics, and weekly ranking is also a hot spot for students.

4. The church deals with problems.

In class management, in fact, our most important thing is not management, but guidance. When students have problems, don't worry, analyze the reasons. Many times, it is because students have not learned to deal with the situations they encounter correctly. The head teacher should guide students to learn how to do things and how to communicate, such as how to sweep the floor quickly, and how to communicate with classmates if they are not satisfied with their practices.

5. Positive discipline

? Succession should create a good atmosphere of public opinion, and teachers should be good at discovering good behaviors and phenomena in the class and praise them more. Where the teacher pays attention, so do the students. Teachers pay attention to good behavior, and students will pay attention to it and set an example. Tell more stories and less reason. I often make up stories according to the problems in class, so that students can understand the truth in the stories. The form of story can make students more acceptable and impressive, and it is more effective than simply reasoning.

? Third, constantly cultivate yourself and run your own brand.

While the iron is hot, you need to be hard. Young teachers should make good use of their spare time, read pedagogy, psychology and their own professional knowledge, and also read books on parenting education. On the one hand, we can improve our education and teaching level, on the other hand, we can provide some help when parents need parenting education, thus establishing trust between home and school.

It is said that wine is not afraid of the depth of the alley. However, in the information age, our teachers need to manage themselves as a brand, improve their professional influence and establish their professional image. You can make full use of various platforms such as WeChat official account, Little Red Book and circle of friends to share your educational ideas, educational practice achievements and teaching essays. It can not only improve our educational reflection ability, but also exchange ideas with more people.

Fourth, multi-form communication to win the trust of parents.

? There is no understanding between new parents and teachers, and teachers should actively and artistically communicate with parents. Think more from the perspective of parents. Think more. If you were a parent, what would you do? Not all parents have received professional studies like our teachers, and parents have encountered many difficulties in parenting. We should use our professional knowledge to help them.

? Specific communication methods can try the following:

1. A letter a week.

Teacher Xue Ruiping communicates with parents by writing letters. In the letter, you can write about class activities, students' progress, teachers' expectations, the next plan, and introduce your own teaching philosophy ... The content of the letter does not need to be too long, just express your own class management methods and concern for students.

Send information in turn

? I used to send messages to five parents regularly every Friday afternoon, telling them what progress their children have made in school and what can be improved. According to the order of the student number, send each student's parents in turn, no one can be less. A small message can let parents know that the teacher is paying attention to their children and will trust the teacher more. If I were now, I would give some advice to parents to help their children grow up better. The teacher just told the parents about the problem, and there was no solution, and the parents were helpless. This kind of communication effect is really ordinary.

The third step is to use the official WeChat account and friends circle.

Make good use of the circle of friends of the official WeChat account to share the dynamic pictures of the class and let parents know that their children's life at school is rich. You can share your educational ideas in the official WeChat account, so that parents can better understand and agree with the teacher's ideas.

4. Anonymous questionnaire

Sometimes if you want to know what parents think about something, you can ask questions, design questionnaires and conduct anonymous surveys in the class.

Face-to-face communication

? Take the initiative to communicate with parents after school to understand the specific situation of children and parents' ideas.

? To form an alliance with parents, I think the most important thing is that our teachers should treat students sincerely, treat teaching seriously and rigorously, and treat parents with understanding and care. Only in this way can the home school be truly built and the development of the whole class enter the fast lane.