Three main points: learn how to spend the ambiguous period.

Three main points: learn how to spend the warm taste period!

Ambiguity makes people feel wronged until waiting is meaningless.

-Rainie Yang's "Ambiguous"

Ambiguous, an ambiguous love, always makes people in it full of joy, but it often makes people feel wronged because of ambiguous uncertainty, sometimes making each other misunderstand and sometimes letting both sides miss it.

So we should know how to spend the ambiguous period and turn this hazy love into sweet love!

First, stay calm, stay calm.

In the period of ignorance, we must calm down and keep calm, so as to maintain the rationality of thinking. The so-called "the authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear." In particular, girls themselves are more emotional, and are often more likely to fall into it than boys. The ambiguous period is a vague state, and everything may change.

We may have a good impression on many people in life, and even like many people. This is a very normal thing, because like often changes from a good impression, so even if there are problems, you should calm down and let yourself get out of the gap as soon as possible to find a new life.

Second, learn to control the rhythm of warm taste period.

Ambiguity is actually more like a psychological game. Many times, girls lose by not holding their horses. When they have a good impression on each other, some girls will play the role of girlfriends a little, but remember to avoid intimate contact during the ambiguous period, especially in the first two months, which will make boys feel that you are a casual girl, and love rat is more likely to succeed!

What can I do to grasp the rhythm during the warm taste period? In short, we can't be too active, and we can't help being active. If one side takes the initiative every time, then the other side will definitely think about your attitude. Don't want to continue to develop and so on. So occasionally taking the initiative to contact is to give each other hope and make boys feel that they have a chance, so they will take the initiative to contact you next time.

It's the same for boys to ask you out. You can go occasionally, but not every time. If you don't go this time, you can ask him out next time, but no matter who asks you out, remember not to go where there are only two of you!

Third, look at the case and understand.

It must be remembered that in the ignorant period, no matter what we do, our task is actually to observe whether two people really like each other and whether it is appropriate to be together. For example, if you want to buy a dress, you must look at whether you like the style and whether the size is appropriate.

We need to know each other's personality, hobbies, ways of dealing with people, three views and so on. These things don't have to be asked directly, we can observe more and pay more attention. But this thing doesn't have to have many similarities, as long as it doesn't conflict, complement each other and satisfy each other.

Every boy is as flawed as an apple that has been bitten, so sometimes his feelings have to give in and be tolerant. However, when girls are in love, sometimes their IQ will automatically return to zero, and it is easy to believe the empty promises of boys, so concessions and tolerance must be that boys have really changed for you.