After the blind date took the initiative to send me a message, he was lukewarm and didn't know what kind of mentality the other person was. Please give me some advice! Wait online, thank you.

Did you notice his shyness, or did someone tell you?

If you observe, I think it is understandable to send text messages like this. Because the other person may not know your attitude or thoughts, nor what to say to you. So I can only send short and continuous messages like this.

If only someone tells you that you don't feel this way, this intermittent texting behavior is complicated. One is that if the man has a favorite person outside, but he doesn't succeed there, he won't give up, so he won't put his mind entirely on you.

There may be another explanation from your story, which is what you said. Maybe his family really urged him, so he did.

In a word, personally, you should observe him through time. A person's sincerity can not be seen once or twice. Give him some time, and give yourself some time. Maybe you can really understand in the end. As a girl, you should be noble. If you take the initiative, maybe he will be moved or cherished now. After a long time, he may think that you are not so precious. I think it is best for a man to be good to you for a long time and forever. He is close to you, and you are close to him. Let him know that you don't dislike him. If he really wants to pursue you, he will understand.