I want to write a short message to my husband, saying that I want a divorce.

Hello, just write according to your actual situation. If the other party doesn't want a divorce, he can file a divorce lawsuit. As long as there are legal circumstances that should be divorced, you can divorce directly for the first time. Divorce by agreement and divorce by litigation are both divorce methods stipulated by law. In contrast, divorce by agreement emphasizes the agreement of both parties, while divorce by litigation is more mandatory. In the process of divorce proceedings, it is not necessary for both parties to have the will to divorce. Only when there is a legal situation that should be divorced, the court will judge the two to divorce. If you want to divorce for the first time in the process of divorce proceedings, you need to work hard on the evidence to prove that both husband and wife have several legal situations that should be divorced as stipulated in Article 1079 of the Civil Code.

In addition, in the process of divorce proceedings, if your divorce case is complicated and you are not particularly sure about your own case, I suggest that you consult a professional lawyer before divorce proceedings, and the lawyer will give you corresponding opinions or suggestions to avoid unnecessary troubles.

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People's Republic of China (PRC) Civil Code

Article 1079 If one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organization may mediate or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

When trying divorce cases, the people's court shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation is ineffective, divorce should be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, divorce shall be granted:

(a) bigamy or cohabitation with others;

(2) committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

(three) gambling, drug abuse and other bad habits;

(four) separated for two years due to emotional discord;

(5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the marriage relationship.

If one party is declared missing and the other party files a divorce lawsuit, the divorce shall be granted.

After the people's court ruled that divorce is not allowed, if the two parties have separated for one year and one party files a divorce lawsuit again, divorce shall be granted.

Article 1080 The marriage relationship is dissolved when the divorce registration is completed or the divorce judgment or conciliation statement comes into effect.