The correct way to deal with cheating between colleagues

The first situation is cheating. That is, one or more parties cheated. Such a cheating relationship would definitely be difficult to hide among colleagues, and it may even spread to the ears of their family members. In any case, this is a very dangerous thing. Cheating is divided into intentional and unintentional. For intentional infidelity, it is definitely difficult to conceal and clean up, and it is almost impossible to get forgiveness from your partner. Therefore, it is recommended that in this case, it is better for one party to leave the job and try to separate as much as possible. The second situation is an accident. In other words, it is an accident, such as getting drunk at a party or admitting the wrong person. This kind of situation is highly accidental. As long as both parties tacitly conceal it, it will generally not cause much impact. Even if your colleagues and boss know about it, they also know that it is indeed an unexpected situation for you, which is understandable. Of course, this kind of accident could have been avoided by drinking less alcohol at parties and paying attention to safety. The third situation is feelings. This situation means that the two parties really have feelings for each other, so they have a relationship. This situation is difficult to deal with. You need to communicate clearly with the other person, determine the other person's opinion, and if appropriate, simply stay together. In this way, a normal relationship will not affect work and will bring happiness. But if the two parties cannot reach mutual understanding, this awkward relationship will still affect the work, but it can also be solved later through communication and time. Finally, I would like to add that the most important thing about this matter is the attitude of both parties. This is the most important reference. This matter requires friendly communication between both parties to resolve it. The correct way to deal with cheating among colleagues 2 1. What to do if you cheat with a colleague 1.1. Elimination method: Being jealous when you should be jealous is related to stability and unity, how can you tolerate it? Speak out your dissatisfaction and anger and set rules for him, Let him know the limits of your tolerance. Otherwise, if you tolerate it again and again and occasionally complain, he will think that you are a bit small-minded. If you receive this call again, write down the number, dial it back immediately, and tell her openly that your husband cannot respond to her every request, so that she understands that you are not a show-off. 1.2. Elimination method: put down your body and fight. Although this kind of woman is extremely lethal, when his novelty wears off, she will naturally no longer take her seriously. You might as well tell him about the similar women in your company with a smile to dilute his excitement. Or simply put down your figure and fight with her, dress more coquettishly and noblely than her, be more fashionable and open-minded than her. The weakness of open-minded women is that they feel inferior about their immaturity. Under your strong disinfection, they will definitely turn into ashes immediately. 2. Those girls are easy to seduce men. The artistic type is a petty bourgeoisie with a lot of literary and artistic complexes. Whenever a man talks to her about her life ideals, she will immediately call her a "blue-faced confidant" and consider herself "red sleeves add fragrance". If you have nothing to do, send some overly emotional e-mails. When you are on a business trip, he will call you and say: "The rainbow here is so beautiful!" There is a type of woman who likes to watch men bewitched by her. What does it look like, love to make two phone calls with unclear tone to a man and send some colorful text messages. As for him, he prefers to enjoy this kind of mental advantage. If you protest, he will definitely retort: ??"I'm still young, it's just for fun, do you have to take it seriously?" 3. A married woman cheats and stays confused throughout her life. Marriage, like people, cannot be perfect, just like yours Your husband doesn’t know how to be romantic but can make money, and your male colleague can be romantic but is poor. These make you don’t know how to choose. All of this is caused by human greed. Women should be less greedy about marriage than men. It will be more real, so don't think that your male colleague really loves you, maybe he will be like your husband after marriage, so women should not make mistakes randomly and make their lives a mess. How to tell if a person is having an affair 1. Change of attitude If your man suddenly becomes very polite to you, buys you clothes today, chocolates tomorrow, and brings you cosmetics the day after tomorrow, you should be careful. Suddenly There may be some conspiracy behind such attentiveness. Maybe he feels very guilty because of cheating, so he hopes to buy something to make up for it.

2. He comes home very late. He usually goes home on time, but recently he suddenly works overtime, or meets with friends, eats, and socializes every three days. You should also pay attention. He suddenly becomes so busy. Maybe If there is another mystery, be sure to pay more attention to his daily actions. Maybe he will ask his friends (your same friends) to explain to you and prove what he is really doing. 3. He is unwilling to let you take his cell phone. If he suddenly has a lot of messages and calls and is still unwilling to let you see his cell phone, there is probably something wrong with him. Moreover, if you ask him, he will definitely be hesitant and hesitant to explain. Come on, use some old classmates or new colleagues as an excuse to stall you. If he always wants to go out after answering the phone and clears messages and the like at regular intervals, it will be more dangerous. It can be said that he is inseparable. The correct way to deal with cheating between colleagues 3 How to deal with the husband and the mistress who are colleagues When we find that the partner of the husband's affair is a colleague of the husband's company, we should think about what is the difference between us and the mistress? We all know that mistresses have attractive looks. Let us now take a serious look at ourselves, our gradually yellowing skin, and our gradually aging faces. How can my husband not cheat on me like this? My husband actually cheated on me with a colleague in the company, so there must be something tempting about this colleague. So when thinking about how to break up with our husband and the mistress of the company, we should first improve ourselves. Beauty is a woman's capital. When we are at home, we should also learn how to dress ourselves up, expand our circle of friends, and gradually broaden our life pattern. Use your greatest advantage to make your husband regret it, and then return to the family. Don’t cry, don’t make a fuss, and deal with it calmly. The reason why a mistress can be included in your marriage with your husband must be that he is more fresh than you. If you choose to act impulsively at this time, you will definitely lose, so at this time you must What you do is to stay calm and not expose yourself, thereby reducing the stress between you and your husband. If you encounter a mistress head-on, don't make a fuss, don't go to the company to make trouble, and don't yell like a shrew. We need to find the right way to deal with it, and we need to find evidence of infidelity between the husband and the mistress. Because I have found the evidence, even if I get divorced in the end, I will not suffer a loss. Chat with the mistress in private If the mistress is after her husband's money, we can find the mistress privately, talk to him, give him a check, and then record the conversation with him. If the mistress is really with her husband for money, then record this recording and play it for her husband to listen to. Let your husband personally reveal the true face of your mistress, let him understand what kind of person your mistress is, and then he will finally understand your sincerity. Don't threaten the mistress, sit down and talk calmly. Change your husband's company. Since your husband cheated on you with a colleague, you can certainly choose to change your husband's company. If you still want to maintain your marriage with your husband, and if there is still room for maneuver in the relationship between your husband, Change the company, change the environment, and let them cut off all contact. If there are children at home, if the husband really cares about the family and the children, then he will definitely agree to change companies and start a new life. After all, it is a new environment and a new beginning. Over time, the husband will naturally cut off contact with the mistress. So no matter what you do, you can't just focus on the present without considering the consequences. As long as you find the right way to deal with it, everything will be a success.